As per the Hindu Marriage was solemnized in accordance with the customary rites and ceremonies in terms of section 5 and section 7 of the Hindu Marriage Act, 1955 on february 2016 at Guwahati and we registered our marriage under sub-section (1) of section 8 of the Hindu Marriage Act, 1955. On september 2012, in Kolkata.
I’m from Kolkata and my wife from Guwahati, My place of work is Kolkata. Hence after the marriage we have been staying in Kolkata with my parents, also we do not have any child. Due to my job most of time in a month approx. 15-16 days was traveling abroad for various assignments. Since 1.5 years had passed our marriage also from the very beginning we used to quarrel over many minor and small issues.
And from the very beginning minor hassle & turmoil were continued but every time we solved it and every time I tried to explained the situation, , September 2013, our relationship started to sour as she wished to back Guwahati with her mother at that time My Mother-in-law stayed with us in kolkata after completed his treatment from Bengaluru (Nimhans). End of the same month she went to Guwahati on grounds of caring her ailing mother. At that time I was in Bangladesh for an assignment. I tried to contact her over phone. Surprisingly she start accusing me of mentally torturing her and severe abusing me, after few days, I went to her house in Guwahati to bring her back. There she, her parents and her younger brother misbehaved with me, insulted me and alleged me of behaving rudely with her. When I said that all of this was false, they more shouting to me, I returned to Kolkata alone and have been staying here alone, after few days again she asked me for a Rented house, thereafter me and my family arranged one Rented House.
First week of January 2014 I bring back her to kolkata on new rented house, but from the first day in rented house, she start express board but the rented house details with photos has been already shared with her and quarrel over many minor and small issues as like before.
First week of May 2014 we (me, wife and father-in-law) have been visited Chennai for my wife’s Slip-Disc surgery, it was two expensive surgery approx. 2.75Lac thereafter while we returned to Kolkata, again same rough quarreling, rough/ bad language, insulting in front her father and even she beaten me and were broken my spectacles. At that moment she just tortured mentally to me, and it had become impossible for me to stay overnight in our rented house. Surprisingly her father didnt said anythingand asked me to book two ticket Kolkata – Guwahati as he want to back her daughter to Guwahati, I explained him in front of my wife, that, this is not first time quarreling / rough behaviors/ slang language, all time we resolved among themselves. Infect my wife realized his mistake letter and asked Sorry to me, in that same way while I found it’s my mistake I said sorry and we make overall settlement happily.
But they are refused to hear me anything and determined to return Guwahati. Finally I booked there tickets and she packed all total 18 numbers of luggage including her gold ornaments infect I believe she already moved the gifted ornaments already to Guwahati in the first time, also I handover my gold chain and gold ring which I got as gift from in-laws during the marriage.
I just really disappointed, cried, begged, requested to them not to leave but they are just ignored.
Finally, on 1st June 2014 me and my father helped them to reached Kolkata station with 18 numbers of luggage’s.
Thereafter again several times, I went to in-law house in Guwahati and to bring back, but most of all times, same incident happened she, her parents and her younger brother misbehave with me, insulted me and alleged me of behaving rudely with her, when I said that all of these was wrong, false because at this time her father was present there. And they asked divorce. I returned to Kolkata alone and have been staying here alone, and after one month I leaved that rented house.
But, from the 2012 to till date, I continuing my responsibility to my wife, her medical treatments, LIC payments of Rs, 6810(her personal), mobile recharges, Joint Mediclaim premiums, Flight expenses, minor demands and gifts, etc. and it has continuing while she lived in Kolkata and start staying with her parents in Guwahati. As a pocket money till date I transferred of Rs3500 on her personal (Guwahati) account.
It was my last visit in Guwahati February 2016 (on our marriage anniversary), surprisingly I was honored by really miserable and abused by her. I was really shocked on that day, She was to totally arrogant even tried signed a bond that It was my fault that’s why she leave Kolkata and I divorced him. Infect everyday she called me asked for separation and divorce, finally I informed her father and he replied, he wouldn't want to involve in this matter, it’s up to us only, Then my wife asked me to lodged a mutual divorce in Kolkata, accordingly I connect a lawyer, suddenly my wife asked for 10 Lac Rupees as Alumni, while she agreed in front of her parents for a Mutual divorce and thereafter denied to come Kolkata and asked me to lodged a Mutual Divorce in Guwahati only.
She just making my life hell. Every time called me and start slang, abusing and asked for mutual divorce with a 10 Lac alimony even in my offce working hours, as I replied that I haven’t enough money or capacity to meet that demand, as I agreed to pay him 1-2 lac only. But she start warned me that, he will filed 498 A case to me and my family. As per her request I connect my lawyer to her, to explained the actual process of a mutual divorce but she arrogant for the same matter 10 Lac, then again asked me to find a lawyer in Guwahati and do the needful,
I have made him clear that since she has left her marital home without any valid reason, still I continuing tried and request him, emailed him to bring back in Kolkata but she replied I have to left my job, leave my family from kolkata and have to stay in Guwahati only and that is not possible for myself.
We have agreed to a mutual divorce and have asked them to submit us a draft copy of their terms and conditions, but they are not doing that, instead they want me to go to her hometown in Guwahati and fight the case, now the fact is that they have lied so much. We don’t believe any of their words and hence we want the Mutual divorce to be filed either in Guwahati or in Kolkata.
I m staying alone in kolkata and life is depressing for me. please suggest me.
