Fake 498a and dv - help

I mean to say that all my wife's jewellery is with her, but she has claimed that it is with me.

you are using the word that they have gifted.....for 498a the word is dowry & not gift.........

we are also victims of 498a........

if actually they have stated that they have gifted you all this, then it becomes a safeguard for you since gifts are given at time of marriage but if its stated that they have given you dowry then its more servere trouble.........

Mostly you will have to give a statement in court that you are willing to give back even the gifts what you have received at the time of marriage alongwith the relevant proofs from your side........If she says that she has given you sofa & dining table additional then if its not true then you have to show to court the true source how they were purchased from your side.

Hope i have helped u a bit.

498A is about cruelty and not about Dowry so the articles given by them dont constitute a crime by you as these were given as gift by them and they would not be able to prove that these were demanded so unless they prove cruelty by you and your family on girl for dowry no crime is proved on you.

The mistake on your part would be if you are trying to say the items that were given to you are not given to you. So dont panic still there is no negative case going against you the main thing is cruelty that should not be proved.

So in cross examine defend any charges of cruelty incidents. The items given to you can be proved as not demanded so nothing to panic.

Dont give incorrect statements as to items given as the other party has proofs.

I agree with sanjeev on this.

Regards,

Shonee Kapoor

harassed.by.498a@gmail.com

@Raghav

Arent you the same guy who wanted his wife to pay for his sister's marriage and other things from her earnings?

what were you thinking while deciding on taking those 8L before marriage?

what were you thinking while asking her for her salary for your family's needs?

And what were you thinking while responding to your 498A and DV...?

you thought you can keep all her streedhan and enjoy life as she wouldnt be able to provide evidence is it? and now that she has proved things you have come here asking for help claiming to be innocent..

Law doesnt spare guys like you who have no respect for truth...your lawyer is right...you lost your credibility...its going to be a little easier for your wife to prove cruelty and domestic violence now...the judge might not tend to believe you if you claim to be completely innocent...

Btw, refusing access to your wife from her streedhan is also cruelty and from what you have mentioned you did that already...

your lawyer in absolutely right...you should listen to him.

@Shwetha

what is your problem?

Yes...I asked my wife for money for my sister's marriage...so what? doesnt she have a responsibility towards my family tooo....how can she be so selfish? isnt she supposed to share my financial burden if she really loved me? you just want men to provide you all the money in maintenance but you dont want to given anything in return...same thing if a guy had refused to give his wife his money, you would have created so much fuss about it ...but if a girl refuses to her husband the money, its her right is it?

BTW, I only asked my wife for money. I didnt force her for anything. its becasue of her attitude and behavior that she thinks she can do anything she likes becasue she is an educated metro woman, she misusing the law and troubling me...

I am not interested in keeping any of her streedhan and enjoying...I replied to it that way becasue she had exaggerated her claims...If she had stated facts, I too would have stated the facts...

@Shonee and Sanjeev

what about that 35 tulas of jewellery?

I know I did a mistake by replying in my counter that nothing was ever given, and now she has proved that it was indeed given.

but the fact is that the jewellery is with her only and she is claiming that it is with me.

my lawyer is telling me that the judge is not ging to believe me if I now say that the jewellery is not with me but with her as I have already been proved a liar. is it true? If so, how can i prove that the jewellery is with her and not with me.

Please advice.

Once a liar, always a liar.

That is why it is important to speak the truth.

Regards,

Shonee Kapoor

harassed.by.498a@gmail.com

Dear Raghav

file an application for mediation or plea Bargaining before the court and settle the matter.

feel free to call

Raghav,

its not me Its the entire society and the entire system that has a problem with guys like you who treat women like money making machines for them.

your argument would have been valid if you had not taken anything from your FIL.

Your FIL gave you everything for setting up your new home, he also gave you 8L, from what you said, your wife was contributing for your regular household expenses and you still wanted her to give more for your sister's marriage. what do you do? you dont have a job. Or are you a professional BEGGAR.

And please stop claiming to be innocent. You are here asking for help, only becasue your wife had the proofs and reciepts. If your wife didnt have the same, you would be making fun of her.

agree with Debashis88

Nadeem Sa'ab,

Plea Bargaining is not maintainable in 498a.

Debashish,

I believe what you are trying to tell raghav is that he should not try to bribe into the guy's family for his sister. He should not make her a whore and he should get her married to rikshawlas or chaprasis who dont expect any dowry instead of depending on his wife's earnings for the same.

I completely agree with you.

Btw, inspite of being given so much dowry and being supported by wife, he cannot afford getting his sister married. It seems he is not very different from a rickshawala or chaprasi.