Marry, then come to husbands house where all of them are staying ie boys parents his sister , younger brother etc...
1 week into the marriage girl demanding seperate house.
Boy telling will make seperate house.
Makes seperate house.
Now girl's mom will see the house, is this a house? A cattle shed is better than this. We bought up our daughter like a princess. My princess should stay is such a house is it.
Make a better house.
Boy says done, raises a loan, goes for 3BHK flat. Now MIL is silent so the girl is.
Girl and boy move in.
One week into the new flat, boy moves out to mom's house. Why? Girl does not know to cook food. Why? Ever heard of a princess cook food? Princess knows only to order and eat.
Finally, princess misses her favorite cook's food ie her mom's food. She tells husband, dear husband me go to mom's place for few days. There she goes.
She wont come back for 5 months.
When husband calls her up, she tells you come and pick me. He wont go, he tell you have gone, you only come.
Then MIL tells if you want wife, you come and pick.
There starts jidda jiddi.
1year passes, fed up husband files divorce case based on desertion with RCR.
Oh ho, he has filed divorce case, let me file 125 crpc, HMA let him pay money after all he married me.
In mean time, neighbors of the MIL start asking, ladki maayke mein zyada din acchi nahi lagti, kab bhejrahe hain ladki ko vaapas. And pressure starts mounting up. Day by day, the girl starts thinking of what she should have done and what she should not have.
Even while replying to RCR petition, she has used all derogatory remarks against husband and his parents.
Uh oh. I cant stay here, I cant go back, what do I do?
Girl again contacts her lawyer. Sir, al this is happening, I want to go back to my husband but dont know how to go? Make me go back to my in-laws place sir.
Ok. Sign here.
There goes in the DV case. Under section 23 you can go to your in-laws house and stay with police protection.
These are the regular types of scenarios in today's world.
For there is a time, to act upon swiftly, to do what is needed when there is time, when it bleeds you should apply dettol or an antiseptic cream to avoid infection. It bleeds and you dont do anything about it, afterall its a shoebite, leave it gangrene sets in and the leg has to be amputated.
Couples dont think about their marriage when they are married, but only when there is a court case going on, it is for the couples to think about their marriage and do what is required, show love and be loved when they are together.
