1. Society has no legal jurisdiction to "Take possession and Hire out" the members property to recover its outstanding dues. It will be a criminal offence, if the Society does this forcefully.
2. If you are in Sole Possession/Occupation of your Father/Mother's property, it is better to keep paying the Society dues, by Cheque + Covering letter, to create evidence of your Possession/Occupation of your Father/Mother's property.
3. As far as the transfer of property is concerned, IF the property is in Mumbai, THEN file for "Letter of Administration", before the "testamentary div." of the Mumbai High Court. This will solve most of your problems.
4. All the legal heirs of the deceased father/mother will be forced to comply with the HC decree.
Keep Smiling .... Hemant Agarwal