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Indira (Sr.Manager)     11 April 2014

Child custody

hi I have finished 2 counseling. My husband did not agree for mutual consent and chooses to go on fighting the DV/Interim maintenance & injunction to meet. There is an injunction to meet my 6 year old son and come to my house put by the judge. Husband has refused to give interim maintenance and in return filed a reply giving interim custody of the child. He has put all false allegation on me and my family. He continues to harass me and my son. I have not asked for any maintenance as I am well enough to take care of me. I have asked for maintenance as the father chooses to treat the child as his toy but no responsibility . 1. I want to know will the court give the custody of 6 year old child to father. 2. Also as per my husband I earn better then him, will he escape child interim maintenance. and get visitation rights as well. ( I am not aware of my husbands compensation as he is always hidden the same. but he knows mine as he has all access to my stuff). My case is going on in Mumbai Family court Please help.


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Adv. Chandrasekhar (Advocate)     11 April 2014

1.     The court while deciding the custody of the child, the interests of the child will be taken as paramount consideration.  So, even though the boy child even after crossing the age of 5 would in most of the cases remain with the mother.  Hence, I do not see that he will get custody, if you put your pleadings that the child's welfare lie by staying with you, and you will get custody.  But, definitely, for reasonable period, he will get visitation rights and when the child ages further, he will be allowed to enjoy the company of the child for a few days and as a matter of fact, it would be healthier for the child to enjoy the love and affection of both father and mother.  So, do not put obstructions and deprive the child to get company of the father for some days in a year for his healthy growth.

2.  He has to pay for child's maintenance.  Both the parents have the equal responsibility for the maintenance of the child and the court will definitely direct him to pay maintenance to the child.  In respect of non-disclosure of husband of his real income, you have to move an application asking the court to file affidavit disclosing the income in accordance with the judgment delivered by the hon'ble high court of Delhi in "“Puneet Kaur Vs. Inderjeet Singh Sahney”.  Ask your advocate to get copy of the judgement and go through and file the application and you will get fair amount of maintenance for the child.

  

Adv. Chandrasekhar (Advocate)     11 April 2014

1.     The court while deciding the custody of the child, the interests of the child will be taken as paramount consideration.  So, even though the boy child even after crossing the age of 5 would in most of the cases remain with the mother.  Hence, I do not see that he will get custody, if you put your pleadings that the child's welfare lie by staying with you, and you will get custody.  But, definitely, for reasonable period, he will get visitation rights and when the child ages further, he will be allowed to enjoy the company of the child for a few days and as a matter of fact, it would be healthier for the child to enjoy the love and affection of both father and mother.  So, do not put obstructions and deprive the child to get company of the father for some days in a year for his healthy growth.

2.  He has to pay for child's maintenance.  Both the parents have the equal responsibility for the maintenance of the child and the court will definitely direct him to pay maintenance to the child.  In respect of non-disclosure of husband of his real income, you have to move an application asking the court to file affidavit disclosing the income in accordance with the judgment delivered by the hon'ble high court of Delhi in "“Puneet Kaur Vs. Inderjeet Singh Sahney”.  Ask your advocate to get copy of the judgement and go through and file the application and you will get fair amount of maintenance for the child.

  

notit4tat (SoftwareEngineer)     13 April 2014

Dear chandra sekhar, can you please explain why he will not get child even child turn 5 years? Under what conditions only women get permanent custody through out the child life.? Child developing personal rapo with mother is the only credit for mother? If it is so what is the point husbands to file Child custody separately, normal visitations rights could have been given by judge when couple gets divorce

notit4tat (SoftwareEngineer)     13 April 2014

Dear chandra sekhar, can you please explain why he will not get child even child turn 5 years? Under what conditions only women get permanent custody through out the child life.? Child developing personal rapo with mother is the only credit for mother? If it is so what is the point husbands to file Child custody separately, normal visitations rights could have been given by judge when couple gets divorce

Indira (Sr.Manager)     14 April 2014

The child is with me from 2 years his father has not done anything to ttake the son for any responsibility point of view just comes for 10 mins once in a week at my place tries to create fights else meets the son and goes back. How will the court give custody to the father in this manner when all the progress in education or upbringing is done by me. Please suggest. If the child is to be presented in the court then when does this happens. As my case is for interim maintenance and injunction. Husband filed for interim custody and no divorce granted to wife . I am patient and will fight out the case as I know all are wrong allegation on me

notit4tat (SoftwareEngineer)     15 April 2014

In most of the cases, Male child after 5 years will be given to husband as child needs more of socialisation, moral support which is not possible by mothers as after 5 years male child may not need emotions from mothers to grow independently for the sake of child growth and welfare. But since you are asking for divorce, what kind of right do you have to spoil the child future by making him mentally retarded child. Every Child need support of both parents in timely manner as eagle can not fly with one wing. Please understand the small things. Both the parents has to compromise towards the welfare of child.

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