We have applied for 498A & DV case transfer to our city from the girls place in the district court as suggested by my lawyer and it is pending before the court (actually girls side are influential persons and they are threating us to kill). Now, my lawyer says are u ready to pay the expenses(if girl side men & police take food at 5 star hotel , A/c car travel and other expenses etc for each adjournment )nearly 4000 to 5000 rupees. Is this true that we should pay such huge amount. i came through one of the website that actual expenses can be made, what is actual expense mean here? . Please let me know, if there is any alternative, if we ask for some neutral place can we avoid these expenses. Desperately need your suggestions here.