Hi frnds there is possibility that my wife can file a 498a against me..... So as having an intution of that since she gone to her maternal I have recorded all the 7months communication (by mobile) between me and my wife/in-laws .......... I think that much calls are enough to proove that there is no point in any allegation said by them....
Is it will be used as an evidence????
Here is something tragic abt me. I got married in 11-Apr-2010…….. and on 25-Oct-2010 she went to her parents home for maternity…... and I got a baby on 24-Dec-2010…….
When she went to her parents home started to share some SAAS-BAHU wala scenes to her mother…….then cold war began……… and on 16th Feb-2011 we had a final hot war…….. and since then I cant even see my daughter ……… now she is 9months old but since last 7months I am desperately dying to see her……..
But my wife has a put a condition that either leave your parents or me….. but I don’t wanna leave my parents that is the scene bcoz they are non earning people and suffering from critical illness so they need me.
So I sent her a normal legal notice that Please come within a week time otherwise I will take legal action….. and everything screwed up……….. she sent me a legal notice with having 14 false allegations…………..
Now she & my in-laws are dying to screw my life………. They don’t even wants to send her back but by putting 498A against me they want to spoil my life and career………. For that thing they appointed extrmly reputed and most famous no. 1 (Mahenga) lawyer of their place who is badly known for false practices………
So my questions are as follows:
1) Should I file RCR? Before she files 498A against me? Is it makes any difference if I let them file 498A against me then I will be filing RCR? (Bcoz my ethics are not allowing me to take first step)
2) If this case concludes in divorce then I have 4 dependents on me (younger bro., sis, mother, father) then out of my Rs. 25000 salary approximately how much will be given to her for maintenance where I am paying Rs. 20000 as Home Loan EMI. Then what will be my monthly income consideration either 25000 or 5000?
3) She is staying at bhusawal and I am at Mumbai (8 Hr Distance) If she files a case in her place then its not convenient for me to attend all the dates. Can I transfer the case to my nearest place?
4) Then what if I keep stretching the case by saying “Ok I am ready to accept her” then how long I can stretch this? Any suggestions? Or what else I can do to be safe?