|Originally posted by : Anjuru Chandra Sekhar|
|Men and women in young age carry a tendency to check practically how good looking they are. The way to check this is attracting opposite s*x and verifying how far that person can go for me. It satisfies ego of the person who can make opposite s*x yearn for her/him. It is not actually love. It confirms to them - "Hey! I am so good looking that women go to any extent for me!".
That's why he was saying with policeman that "you will die for him". It hurts you because it gives an impression that he is more sought after by you than he did. That need of being loved is more satisfied if it is known to friends, society etc. They want people to say to each other "Mast rahta saala! ! Ladkiya peeche bhaagte inke!". That boosts their self confidence in themselves that they are truly good looking.
You see once that is confirmed and carry desired effect in friends and society they will no more be interested in opposite s*x. Because they never loved anyone.
There is no point in running behind such people. Because the more you run behind, the more confident they become that you are too unworthy for person of his level of status, handsomeness etc. that is why you are mad after him. It gives hint to them they can try more good looking woman next time. Women in such place don't generally think like that because they would be disturbed with kind of attention they are getting from a guy running after, and they feel that's more than enough for one life that I could make someone slave. By now it is amply clear that if this guy is running after me like this many other like him also do that for me. If I make more men run behind society may think I am of bad character. So they generally stop after trying (checking) with one guy.
So please don't think there is no life without support of opposite s*x. Take a deep breathe, and remain alone for 3 to 4 years. Enjoy living alone. Don't run behind such rut who wants to self satisfy seeing the way you go mad after him.
FYI,we have love on each other.we are not small kids to run after desires and he is not of that kind and am not of that kind.Please dont give ur own fly conclusions to our relation.