Iam afraid you have not given the real facts...
First you say SARFAESI proceedings...then you saysome order from court of law where you have been set exparte???!!!!
Lets put it this way, if the case was made exparte fraudlently you surely have a very good case to setaside the same. (BTW civil courts do not have the power or jurisdiction to issue orders for possession/sale under SARFAESI Act)
You also said that you had filed objection to 13(2) notice and no reply was received within statutory one week, this itslef a good ground for vitiating the action by the NBFC
May be if you clean up the mess and come abreast with real facts, we could help you you may also PM