I have got married in July, 2012. Ours is an arranged marriage.Since Marriage, My Husband and MIL ill-treated me(Abusing me as not equally educated(though an Under Graduate,not well earned, not beautiful and finally not from a rich family).I have a 6 months old Baby Boy now.
My MIL was so possessive over my husband that she does not let us stay alone in a different city where we live. She wants her son to visit her every week and was on call with him throughout the day and even during nights intruding in our privacy.
On the other hand, my husband is so greedy in terms of money that he wants me to get money from my parents. He and his parents also demands all the money which I get as salary every month which i was giving him when i was with him .He has not spent even a penny for me or my child during pregnancy or even now.
Also he and his parents are foul mouthed and had been cursing my parents of not giving enough money whenever he requires. My MIL has went to such an extent of cursing my unborn baby during a verbal conflict .
Now since the delivery of My 6 months old Baby he has deserted me by creating an argument and quarrel in the maternity hospital. Now I am staying at my parental home since am working in this city. Since then he has no intention of taking me back to his home in spite of involving all ours and his relatives for resolving this dispute.
Now he has left his job and went back to his home town and when asked over called he is saying that I am not ready to live with you and asking me to send a divorce notice that he wants to get out of this relationship.
He is NOT ready to take responsibility as a father of the child as well as to save our marriage for the sake of the child
Can I go ahead and lodge a complaint on him,or whether RCR would be helpful?. I do not have a intention of getting a divorce for the sake of my baby.
Seeking your kind advice
Thanx in Advance