I got married in 2004 and within a month he desserted me. After a year he sent notice asking for divorce and then in next 6 mnths he filed petition for divorce on grounds of dessertion. First 3 yrs he attended dates on-off and on my lawyers insisitence i filed maintenance after 3 yrs to force him to not skip dates. From the date of order of maintenenace, he stopped attending case and court dismissed his divorce petition and that he is absconding. Meantime i got info that he is married and has 2 childrens but didnt know his whereabouts. i was broken and left the maintenance case.. didnt bother to follow up.
8 years later i met my 2nd husband - unmarried and younger. i was initially reluctant to accept this proposal. i told him EVERYTHING abt my previous marriage and that as per law i m stil not divorced. He was completely okay with it. But as days passed i could sense his abusive behaviour but i went ahead and married him in 2014. He fought for petty issue on the day after our marriage, as silly as something my parent said and that he got hurt. He called everyone in my contact list including those in office and said that he is my second husband speaking. His intention was to degrade and humilate me.we didnt live together after marriage and he insisted on divorce. One lawyer said that no need to divorce because its a void marriage. (i got exparte divorce from 1st husband a year after my second marriage) After a year we reconciled and kept meeting without parents knowledge. I insisted on taking a home and living together. He started his abuse, name calling and humilation again when i insist on using his name in official records or mutual consent divorce and calls my office and relatives degrading me. I have reached a stage where i cant take it anymore and i can lead my life alone.KINDLY ADVISE SHOULD I GO FOR EXPARTE DIVORCE OR FILE TO NULLIFY VOID MARRIAGE IN COURT OR LEAVE IT AND PROCEED WITH MY LIFE.