498a procedure followed by police

WHEN CAN I APPLPY FOR DIVORCE ?

ITS BEEN MORE THAN 1 YEAR SINCE I HAV SEPRATED FROM MI HUSBAND.

HE STAYS IN AUSTRALIA AND IS ON WORK VISA THERE..

HE WENT ON STUDY VISA AND GOT IT EXTNDED ON WORK VISA..NOBODY FROM THE FAMILY HAS GOT PR..HIS FATHER IS ON DONT KNOW WHAT VISA HE HAS BEEN STAYING TEHER FOR PAST 10 YEARS AND HAS STILL NOT GOT PR.

AND HIS MOM ALSO WENT ON STUDY VISA AND GOT IT TRANFERRED ON WORK VISA AND HIS YOUNGER BROTHR HAS ALSO GONE TO AUSTRALIA ON JAN2011 AND NOW THE YUNGEST ONE IS TRYING TO GO ..AND NOTING HAS HAPPNED IN MY CASE YET , ONLY FIR HAS BEEN LODGED , WHENVER I APPROACH IO, HE SAYS, LET THE PROCEEDINGS GO, HE WOULD BE MADE PO AND WOULD BE ARRESTED WHEN HE COMES TO INDIA. BUT HOW? I DONT KNOW

I LODGED A COMPLAINT ON 27OCT2010 OF DOWRY AND TILL NOW, NOTHING HAS BEEN DONE  ,

THEY HAVE NOT EVEN ONCE SAID TO RETURN MY JEWLLERY AND MONEY .

SO WHAT ALL I SHOULD DO ?

HOW CAN I CALL HIM TO INDIA AND FACE THE LEGAL ACTION .COZ I AM SURE OF MY WINNING AS I HAVE ALL HIS PROOFS IN THE FORM OF RECORDINSG,AND CHAS, MESSGAES SENT TO MY FRIENDS ADMITTING OF BORROWING MONEY AND KEEPING ALL MY EWLLERY .

 I WAS TORTURED HERE AS WELL AS THERE FOR MORE DOWRY BUT I COULD NOT TAKE IT ANYMORE AND CALLED THE POLICE WHEN MY HUSBAND TRIED KILLING ME ..

SO I HAD LODGED A COMPLIANT ON 21SEPT 2010 AND SINCE THEN I HAV BEEN LIVING SEPRATELY AND I HAVE COME BACK TO INDIA..I HAVE HIS OWN VOICE RECORDINGS WHERE HE HAS AGREED OF HAVING ALL MY JEWLEERY AND MONEY THAT HE BORROWED FROM MY PARENTS 

BUT HE SAYS HE WOULD NEVER RETURN , NEITHER ANYONE FROM THE FAMILY AND HE WOULD NOT GIVE ME DIVORCE AND ALSO WOULD NOT RETUN THE MONEY HE BORROWED AND THE JEWLLERY HE HAS OF MINE ..

SO WHAT SHOULD I DO ?

HOW TO TAKE DIVORCE FROM HIM AS HE IS NOT WILLING TO DIVROCE ME ???

PLEASE HELP ME !!!

PLEASE HELP ME ASAAP

SIMMY,

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