Hi All,
I got married in June 2010(love marriage). After marriage I came to know that my husband is 12th pass and under loans. He threatened me with revolver, burn me with cigarette, try to burn me in kitchen as well. He made fake degree and got job and kept my gold at Muthoot to get gold loan. On 12th may 2012 I went to drawing room where he was watching movie and ask him to sit and discuss about matter so that in future we should stop fighting. He beat me and kept gun on forehead and threatened me, I snatched gun from him and I called my parents and police. I gave live cartridges to police but police did not write my statement and went. My parents took me back from my matrimonial home. After that my husband called in same day in the evening to come back. I told him that I will think and let him know soon. My parents called my father-in-law so many times but they did not replied back.
Then on 21st I went to police chowki and they were called there and ask them to settle issue amicably. My husband gave a written statement that they will sit on 25th may and discuss. They never called and fixed any meeting.
Then on 30th June I received summons for family court that my parents took me for 2days and they are not sending me back and will lodged false case against them and brain washed me. Upon that my father was angry and we filed a complaint in CAW about this but no Fir is lodged till date. I don’t want to him to go behind bars even he treated me bad. First hearing is done and my father asked me to write that I don’t want to stay with my husband which I did. My husband and my father-in law came and said they are calling me and asked me come back which they never did. Now this week I have first hearing in family court.
Now my question is:
1. Why my husband filed RCR?
2. I want to stay with my husband, what should I do? What should I say in family court?
3. Can he withdraw RCR and file divorce?
4. What should I do to save my marriage?
5. When my parents asked me why he did this to me, no answer?
Please guide me what should I do to go back and save my marriage.