Myself Joy Ghosh married in 2007 Mar , after that we are staying separately in delhi away from my perents and my in laws. After few months of my marrige we had to sell our house (Perents House) for my sisters marrige .
It was an unfortunate event , my sister got married for the second time she was divorced once. There was a big financial crisis which I could not able to solve at that time.
But this incident gave my In laws a chance to talk negetive about me and my family. My wife supported me that time which I can not deny , but situation turn out to be very bad after that , when ever my perents visited my home at delhi they were insulted . My wife got inflienced by my In laws like "Your hasnabds family sell their house no one will look after you " .
In 2009 Jan my wife gave birth of our Daughter "Dhriti" that time her perents were here at my place in delhi. That time her parents were there at my place in delhi. About 10 days they spent with us during that time they went to Haridwar and Rajasthan for vacation , but they did not understand my wife and me needs support as my wife gave bith just one week back. Myself supported her all the time I took leave from my office and stay with her ( My perents were not allowed to come to my place) , I did not say anything because my daughter and my wife will only suffer , I supported my family to the extend I could.
After my daughter's birth my wife told me she will not leave away from me so we stayed together till the time first rice ritual ( Bengali "MukheBhat") which happened at my perents place ( with my wifes consent). All my family members were very happy that time my in laws were also came that time, ( With So many No No will not go there) but they came and they find all the possible and impossible loop holes in my family and the arrengements in the rituals and put nehetively in my wifes mind.
After that my wife get very negetive when ever I tried to talk to her about my perents , this is june 2011 from 2009 my father and my mother did not see my daughter for a single day. All the time she talks negetive about my family and my realetives. Her perents is also supporting her ( From The very first day they wanted this) , they threaten me to file a case because I torture my wife , they forcefulley taken my sign on a stam paper also.
My wife is getting influenced by her perents regularly over phone and talking negetively all the time about my perents and useing abusive language also. I have recorded some of them .
Please help me to save my family I love my daughter and my wife , I know she is getting influenced my her perents but I know this also athat she loved me so much.
My perents are old they do not have any one to support they are staying at my sisters place , fortunaely my sistes in laws are good and they understand my situation.
Please help me how can I solve this problem , my in laws can file any case againest as I have sign on the stamp paper..
But I want to same my Daughter and my Wife being mis lead my her perents and releatives.
Please help I know it is a log writing but I can t help it Please hep.