you tell me
From your one sided account it appears that
1-wife is emotionally abusing you.
2-She may not give you divorce.
3-Stand up and fight.
4-Get hold of and search all positive things which you did for her buying jwellary recepts,gift items,cards,letters of love which she and you exchanged.
5-Keep a tab on her activities .She is not only difficult for you but also for her parents she will leave copuple of trails follow that.
6- NOTE IF THERE IS SUDDEN DETERIORATION OF RELATIONSHIP AFTER SEPARATION .THEN IT IS MANIPULATION.
7-Make a diary and note all details which you remeber.