caste
Sarayu
(Querist) 15 February 2016
This query is : Resolved
I belonging to BC,my husband comes to sc can I change to caste as bc?my daughter getting sc or bc...I need to change my baby also in bc caste...is it possible?
Sarayu
(Querist) 15 February 2016
I am Hindu girl,my husband is converted to Christianity in his childhood,now we are married.....but he is pressuring to change me to Christianity, whole family pressured very much,if I went to church pasters are saying Hindu gods are very bad and saying very badly about Hindu god,so I don't want to change to Christianity, every day we are suffering to this problem...what should I do?please suggest me...
Guest
(Expert) 15 February 2016
Both of your questions seem to be contradictory.
Are there SC, ST or OBC castes in christian community also?
Guest
(Expert) 15 February 2016
Dear Sarayu,
Besides being contradictory to your original query, the second query also seems to be a hypothetical one, may be made just for a fun.
However, if some truth is there in your story, the question arises, are you of an orthodox nature?
Another qquestion arises, if you have married a christian boy without any difference with him or his religion at the time of marriage, where lies the scope of difference now between you or him on the question of religion or Gods?
Further, at least, you could have asked which God did what bad with that pastor, who condemned your Gods, and which of his own Gods did good for him?
Also, ask that pastor, whether the Sun and the Moon are working under the command of God of which religion? If Gods are different, the Sun and Moon would have denied Sunlight/ warmth and moonlight to the people of other religions.
Further, have they or you observed any time that both the Christian and Hindu had ever fought with each other or having any difference of opinion amongst each of them, like your in-laws or you??
When you have married a christian boy, you are part of that family. So, why can't you adopt rituals of that family thinking that the God is ONLY one and is omni present. If you still believe that Gods of different religions are different, you can start worshipping Gods of both the religions, so that you may get double advantage. If you do so, will Hindu Gods take any revenge from you or are the Christian Gods annoyed of you when you have not converted to christianity?
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 15 February 2016
If he was christian and you were Hindu, how and where the marriage took place? Validly it should have happened under Special Marriage Act or by changing religion to same religion by both.
The caste of children would be same as that of father.
If you do not want no one can force you to change your religion.
Adv. Yogen Kakade
(Expert) 15 February 2016
Is your marriage registered?
If yes, then you would have already gone through the process regarding religion.
If no, then get it registered.
And your both the questions are contradictory.
J K Agrawal
(Expert) 15 February 2016
Dear Sarayu
Just let me know that if entry of your God is restricted in a Church? He is every where. You are to just recognize him. Once you find Him with you, it will not make any difference that if you go to a temple or to a church.
The pastors at the Church are far away from the God compare to you. The Christ never said that He himself is the God, he just said that persons like him are having Godly powers. Hindu philosophy taught 'Aham Brahmasmi' that is 'I Myself is God'.
If you your self is just equal to a God than why you feel that Christ is inferior to even you? He is certainly a God, just as You, Me and any other person. The same Christ says.
Just ask one question to your family and the Pastors that "what I am to abendon to become a christian ?" You believe or not but they will have nothing to say with them. If they say 'do not go to temples and do not believe the stones as God', You say "I do not believe so" because they are right. So many Hindus like me do not believe Murti Pooja still they are Hindus.
Like wise you will find that you are to quit nothing. Do not be afraid. Just take things positively. Hindu is a very wide term which include faiths of almost every religion of the World.
Once when I was a very young student of Law a very tough question was asked by me by a foreigner that 'what do I mean by Hinduism ?' I never face such a complicated question but I answer that "I profess 'Sanatan Dharma' which means if one thing is universal truth, it is part of my religion." (universal truth means a concept which is true in present, was true in past and Will true in future and further it will be so in India or in England or at any place in the world) Whenever I feel this answer I find that each and every religion, up to its truthness, is part of Hinduism.
