Custody of my child
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Anonymous
(Querist) 13 August 2011
This query is : Resolved
Hi, I need helpfor my confusion...i married my husband after 5 years of loving him and he is muslim and i was a hindu, I agreed to change my religion after marriage but my parenst dint not approve so i came away without my parents aaproval and change my religion and married him.
I was treated very badly by his mother saying i dint bring any money or gold and came with old clothes still she hurts me a lot..after my marriage my parents missed me a lot and wanted to see me but my inlaws not allowing me to see my parents because they are hindus and dint give any money for marriage.
my husband never listens because my mother in law acts before him and tell him that i am like her daughter.they are so reserved they dont allow me to talk or see my friends or family or my sister...they are rude
My in laws want all the money my husband earns and she says that my husband and i should not buy any property or save money. it seems they will save for us if we give the money we earn...i am also well educated and earned good money worked in a big multinational company...now that i am pregnant after 2 years of treatment for baby becuase of my stress doctor told me to take rest and i ahev to remain home now..
my mother in law tells me continuously that my baby who is to be born should be put in islamic school and should be with her always because i dont know anything...because the child is born to me hindu girl everyone tells her that she should take care of the child
she even says the child should call her a mother and i am just a milk giving servant..i get so depressed because of this...i come from a rich family and i had evrything i loved my husband so much that i left crores and came to him but all i am treated like a servant in this house....they do buy me some clothes and spend for my medicals foe my baby so my mother in law tell because i spend the child is mine and i took care of u you are in dept of me till you die...
i seriously cant understand what i should do....my life is really a question...my father in law for small matter also scold me i will throw you out of the house..
i am afraid if they will take my child away and throw me out...i love my husband he is wonderful person i cant imagine my life without him also...
i am so afraid if my life will go in drain
Raj Kumar Makkad
(Expert) 13 August 2011
If you remain in the same religion then definitely your life will go in drain. You left your parents, your religion, your faith, your happiness, your moeny, your comforts, your locality and o on just for your husband and even didn't meet your parents who had brought you, had made you capable to earn huge money from MNC and stand in life with full complex but all hs become hail only because you loved just with a person and didn't try to understand future consequences. This is common treatment to all Hindu girls marrying with Muslim goons.
If your husband is wonderful person and you can not imagine to live with him then prepare him to live as per your mutually agreed atmosphere where you both may live with dignity. Leave that area immediately with your husband, re-convert to Hinduism and also bring you husband in your faith and lead a peaceful and happy married life. I can personally help you if you require in this matter. If your husband also loves you at par with your sacrifice then he shall have no objection to it because he is also expected to sacrifice everything for you.
