Divorce
Chetana
(Querist) 29 September 2015
This query is : Resolved
dear sir, we both husband and wife living each other 6 to 8 months only, after that her mother and she create some problems. she is living with her mother more than 2 yrs. she working in mnc company. in between our elders are trying to setting this mater with
the help of lawyer, but no use.that time she wants divorce after so many arguments goes on up six months. after that not do any thin, so i want to take divorce. and living my self only.
how can i get divorce with any conditions.
some body told me, when i take the first step i am going to critical. so i am not take any action. but how may days i stay like that. can you please help me to take divorce and live my self. please help me . waiting for your reply. yours sri
SAINATH DEVALLA
(Expert) 29 September 2015
"Think twice before U leap"
Just 8 months of marriage and proposals for divorce.Indian marriage system is being dumped into the drain.
U have to wait for a period of 2 yrs from the date of separation to file for divorce.Even for filing MCD U have to wait for one year.Don't file anything from UR side right now,wait for her course of action.She may be guided to file other criminal cases,hence be alert.
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 29 September 2015
Try for amicable settlement with the help of relatives, common friends, society effective people.
If not possible / no amicable settlement reached, try for mutual consent divorce after one year of marriage.
K.S.Srinivas
(Expert) 29 September 2015
Settle the issue through mediation mechanism.
H.M.Patnaik
(Expert) 29 September 2015
From your posting , it is understood that both of you are educated and well placed.
If that be the case,it is not expected that you are looking up for judicial separation without analyzing pros and cons of the said action.You have not shared ,the cause of non- compatibility. In a marriage , both partners have to sacrifice few things and overlook smaller lapses for building up a nice nest. I am sure you have both failed to set a common goal and rather concentrated on rectifiable lapses. In such a short span of conjugal union
,how can you look forward to part ways. Remember, if one such tie fails , it will bear impact on your future peace and happiness. So, as advised by some forum members , I am also of the view that give your partner some time to mend ways and make you happy and content.
Chetana
(Querist) 30 September 2015
she went to home dated Apr'2013. at that time her and her mother want she want to separate me with my family but i seas no because at that time my mother was very ill in very serious condition. so she and her want divorce in mutual understanding, then lawyer seas minim 1 yr from the date marriage, so we Waite for that time. and meet again lawyer at that time she raises, again so many issues. one fine evening she come with her uncle and i stay here, but i sed no because she come to my home without her parents and any other elders with her and in my family.
i sed sit in front of parents and elders. that time they are not given any response and they went to home and till date no response. so what can i do. one more according to her sussition, i left my job also. and till date i am not setilled in my life. i have some financial problems also.
Chetana
(Querist) 04 October 2015
she went to home dated Apr'2013. at that time her and her mother want she want to separate me with my family but i seas no because at that time my mother was very ill in very serious condition. so she and her want divorce in mutual understanding, then lawyer seas minim 1 yr from the date marriage, so we Waite for that time. and meet again lawyer at that time she raises, again so many issues. one fine evening she come with her uncle and i stay here, but i sed no because she come to my home without her parents and any other elders with her and in my family.
i sed sit in front of parents and elders. that time they are not given any response and they went to home and till date no response. so what can i do. one more according to her sussition, i left my job also. and till date i am not setilled in my life. i have some financial problems also. Please help me, what can i do.
T. Kalaiselvan, Advocate
(Expert) 04 October 2015
This appears to be a development of another matter based on trivial issues. The matter could have been settled long back if there was willingness at least on one side, but were hard and rigid in their decisions hence an inevitable situation has been thrust upon. Even now it is not late to work for an amicable situation to resume the broken marital voyage if one side is agreeing to bury the differences for the sake of saving the marriage or else the long separation may be a ground for divorce. Discuss with your lawyer about the prospects and then decide about re-joining or parting with each other.
