Take home v/s gross income

Dear Sir,

My take home salary is 41,000/- after deduction of Employee PF, Pension and income tax amount but my gross income 11.25 lacs per annum which inculdes components like employer provident fund, gratuity, Company Incentive and insurance.

I would like to know while calculating maintenence amount to wife and minor son, court will consider take home salary or gross income.

Please advise.