Suicide threatting to me

She requires good councilling.

1. Both seek in nearby big metro city help of professional marriage councilors to make marriage work.

2. Both are in secure In their second innings.

3. Keep positive outlook to life.

This appears to be an unfortunate case. It is more so because the person married a divorcee, the precise reason for her earlier divorce was that she was mentally unfit.

By a coincidence there is another post here about the Supreme Court holding that constant threat of committing suicide was cruelty and can be a ground for divorce..

looks like she needs to undergo behaviour modification therapy.

she needs to go for psychological consultation for depression and suicidal counselling first..

You need to be more strong to bear all this.I know its really hard to live with such kind of people who threaten u day n night..life is miserable with these kind of people ..they  keep on saying thyll do it but never do lest they do succed in driving  the other normal person to do such tired of their blackmails..

Some people do it becoz things dont happen the way they want to and thus  thy threaten and do blackmailing ie the husband or wife..

get counselling done tell her its high time to lead a normal life after so much in both of ur lives since its ur second marriage..

try and make things better , nothing more be said or done..u be strong and dont get tensed ..and moreover what has to be will be if she has to do it she will noone can stop her none but try and keep control and lead a healthy life as much as u can ..

Consult Physchatrist, For your wife.

Hope it works wait for 3-6 months more, If not works.

Then go for Divorce, If she again threat for SUICIDE. (Dr MPS ramani already gave you a correct suggestion)

Best of Luck.

Regards,

Abhinatre Gupt.

Yes in such cases the husband also can take a training on  how to handle such cases. If you succeed in your efforts it will be double achievement. One is that you saved your marriage and the second you saved the life of an unfortunate woman and her marriage.

For me , 

life comes once only..whether it is male or female..

so The life partner should be according to ones dream.

it was your duty to inquire her past..She has pchycological problem..

As it is yr second marriage  , i feel so pain for you..but it is your fault...see how her previous hubby suffered for her!

Whether it is his fault or the fault of someone else, it is a done thing and no one can go to the past. But one can try to make the best out of the future.

Beti, it is not “pchycological” but “psychological”. This is not pulling your leg. Just a small correction only.

THANKS UNCLE.

Someone commented about someones english language some days ago...

and you raised objection that forum decorum should be maintained.........this is not english class.... right?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Now Mr DF,

do your views changes when gender of opposite party changes??

Changing colours like this diminishes some ones personality ...i think..