My husband left me when i was six months pregnant for the reason that i was not ready to sell my flat (the flat was purchased by me before marriage through a home loan and I was paying the emi. I filed for a divorce after my son was born and I was not able to attend the family court as I had my sick leave taken for my son. Finally he got Conjugal rights passed as an exparte. I restored the divorce case and I sent private notice to his office address and residence address in Trivandrum. Both court notice and the private notice returned as he has resigned the job in chennai. Today when I was discussing with the judge that the private notice and the court notice has returned back . The judge told me she will exparte my divorce after a paper publication suddenly My husbhand counsel presented himself before the judge and said he could not attend the court. We have been living separately for 6 years now and my advocate is telling me I have to go through counselling session. I have gone through enough beatings at his hand when we were married over money and my flat and he has not made a single attempt to see my child and not spent a single rupee for my child till date. I dont want maintanance or alimony. Will i get a divorce now that he is going to appear in court. His relatives are telling me he does not have a job so he cant give me money. How much more years should i be going to court for this. I have a job and my child and house work to take care. Kindly help me how to get out of this mess.
