Dear Sir,
I have filed my divorce papers with mutual consent of both parties some 5 months ago. Next month, our second appearance before court shall close the case and divorce shall be granted. I have paid whatever they demanded as alimony. Though the amount was huge, still nowhere on paper it is mentioned that my wife won't be eligible for any second marriage or a job. Means, she can marry second time and can get a job as well, and in that condition also I have paid an hefty amount of compensation.
Like every divorce, divorce procedures started at most bitterful notes. My 7 years old daughter, to whom I love more than my life is with my wife and in-laws. As I come to know my wife to seek some job/earning has left her native place, left my daughter with her parents and is residing away from her. So, in present case, she is not at all taking any care of my daughter.
In divorce papers, it was mentioned that 'whenever I would seek to talk to/meet with my daughter, they would allow that'. But the fact is that I haven't spoken to my daughter after Sep'2011. They even did not make her speak to me on her B'Day, this 30th April. I don't call at my in-laws home. They all are very critical and very abusive to me, and calling at their home for letting me speak to my daughter would only make my position more murky and my daughter getting affected by them because of all this.
But there is zero self-conscience in my in-laws & wife's mind that they are stopping a daughter to speak to her father. Now in this case, as the track is going, I will have to
a) either forever forget that I had any daughter in this life, dear to me more than my life, or
b) to fight a case once again in court for getting back my daughter/getting the court order to them to let my daughter speak to me at 'guided and instructed' time intervals.
Now anyone of you very elite and esteemed dignitaries, please suggest me what can be done from my side in such case, which can really be very effective. I am not residing with my wife since June'10.
Regards
Singh Animesh