In dv case, wife says, threat to her life, but rcr also runn

Dear all,

first of all, let me apologize for starting a new thread for the same query.......i forgot to mention this point in the last query

In the DV case, wife has said under oath, that her life is in grave danger from me and my family members, when she left my rented house in march 2012, she gave a letter in writing to the local police station alleging various mental and physical harrassment from me and my family. intrestingly, the letter bears the address of my parents house, where she never lived during the entire period she was with us, police never called us. 

also, before filing DV in may 2013 mentioning the threat to her life, she filed RCR in november 2012

in DV case she is asking for separate residence and rent, for separate residence, where does she have to stay? in my homestate or her homestate?

now dont these two things contradict each other??