husband filed divorce under cruelty wife file rcr

Dear all, me filed divorce under cruelty against wife bze of interefrrnce n wife leaving home without telling me by making false nc aginest me as well rude n improper way handling the issue by her family.I brought her 8 times but not shown any interest in marriage so I file divorce In reply to divorce they counterblast the rcr in the same case. We both are engineers n she is pursuing masters without discussing with me after she left taken admission. My questions are 1 this two cases will go seperately or same day as they filed under same no. What r steps after this I replied rcr n no mediation yet 2. How to get divorce assp as they r adamant to deal this issue by discussion. 3.how to deal this tactfully to this issue as I feel cheated by them in this marriage