Help on divorce

File divorce on the basis of cruelty and Audultary grounds. Use the 13 B and her withdrawal as one of the evidence and find a good lawyer and and don't disclose the evidences until your evidence stage.

Preserve the evidences in a safe place and court will definitely accept the electronic evidences and family courts also encourages to get the authenticated via sec 65 B of indian evidence act.

You have nice case to deal with. Since you have decided for divorce have that thought in mind and aim for that. Once bitten twice Shy. these kind of females will never changes.

I'm rest assured that your wife's side will come for negotiation. Accept MCD with mutually agreed terms and get out of this bad marriage.

Best of luck

Thanks everyone for all your prompt and useful replies.

I wanted to clarify few things.

1)The emails and voice recordings don't show adultery as stated by law,It shows that they were quite close with each other.

2)The photos sent werent not obscene photos, They were here solo photos.

Would these proofs qualify for proving that she had cheated me?

3)Most of the conversation, i see the guy trying to be initmate and she is not saying very intimate,at the same time doesn't object it and continues to talk with him.

Mere chatting on internet and talking over phone would not constitute extra marital relationship amounting to cruelty for a marital discord/dispute.  The evidences in your possession will not be sufficient to prove your allegations against her.  Well, if you are suspicious about her character there won't be an answer to this despite any amount of counseling given to you because the disease called suspicion in the mind of married men against their spouse will be a deadly disease which has not cure in the world and cannot be cured until the affected person realises and reforms himself.  Under the given situation if you still want to get rid of her from your life, better talk to her and file a divorce under Mutual consent or better reconcile and start a fresh life with her forgetting all those happened in the past as bad dream and never ever open the topic.  think wisely about saving the marriage or to spoil our peace for another three to five years lingering around the court with litigation.

It was not a case of mere chatting,This guy had been repeatedly chatting with her badly, and she didnt think about stoping the converstation with him  and continued to talk with him,

I expected this from her as wife,Tell him not talk with and stop talking with him once and for all.

What was done by her is continute talking with such persons over possible media and sendinf photos to such person, Does this mean that her intention was correct and she had lot of respect for our marriage.
If she had respect for our marriage , she should have stopped.

She had continued to do this, even after i had given her a chance after knowing that she spoke with him.

About your claims on my disease of suspision,
I trusted her blindly before this incident, when she said she cannot give her mobile to me and let me open her gmail.She broke the solid trust that i had on her.

Trust and faith is the base for life.  You seem to have lost both, next whatever she does will be on your scanner or will be looked with a suspicious eyes only, hence better think about the present and future, analyse pros and cons and make a call accordingly.

I APPRECIATE THE MATURED OPINION, FAR SIGHTEDNESS AND FORESIGHTEDNESS OF LEARNED EXPERT Mr. KALAISELVAN IN THE MATTER. FOLLOW HIS ADVISE.

I appreciate the effort to make a marriage work in general.

But i strongly  believe i have tried to work this out for a long time.I have tried it to make it work for the past 1 and a half  years and giving up now. People can't just not fool each other and live for the sake of society.

That will be injustice to each other, as well as the future that you might bring in to the world.

Doing an injustice to your kids is the worst crime that anyone can do for no mistake of the kid.

"When trust is lost everything is lost", You can get over any kind of differences.

but if trust is lost over and over, Can you people please  suggest how to get it back and lead a true life.

It is very easy to say give it a chance, you can make things work.I have heard all this and have tried all this.I don't mean to say that you are all wrong.

I think i would have also done the same thing to someone else, if they were in the same situation as i am in, asking them to reconcile, As i would also think i might be doing good without knowing that the other person had really gone through and goes through.