girish (selfemployed) 24 December 2013

Divorce

dear friends,

my wife is staying at her parents house since last 3 months after leaving her matrimonial house without any

reason. after that she along with her family members met me three times and all the time they just shouted,

yelled and quarelled with me wrongly blaming me for not keeping her not happy.

a fews days back, my wife started calling me on my phone and tried to trap me with her sweet words and

wants me to come to her house to meet her dad and to take her back which i refused coz i am just not

comfortable now to even talk to her or any of her family members. so she called me 5 days back and politely

told me on phone that if i dont want to stay with her, then she will be forced to send me a court notice thru her

lawyer.i told her that i cant force her to stay with me and if she wants to come back she can come back any

time but i am not meeting any one from her family now nor in future. her family members have done cruelty

and character assasination of me by insulting me and my family members in all the 3 occassions when we

met. she ahd also threatened me thru her relative with dire consequences to me and my my family members

if i dont divorce her on asap.

now my questions are :--

1) ca n stop taking my wifesphone calls or is it mandatory legally on my part to attend her cals?

2) can i tell her to send me the court notice and carry her stree dhan from my house and talk to my lawyer only from now on?

3)can i just talk it off and forget all past things if she unconditionally come back?

shud i take one undertaking in writing duly notarised and stamped from her that she will not harrass me and all my family members anytime ever in life and will no lodege any fake cases (498a and dowry cases)in future and she dont want any alimony even if she wants to seperate after completion of one year of our marriage.

now i or my family members have never refused to accept her. we always said yes to accept her in front of all her family as well as my family members but she only refused to come back thereby giving no reasons in particular? pls guide me on asap

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long written story of every possibility stated in it but then also asking what to do?????

Your query is same like you as you yourself don't know what to do next?????

My dear freind nobody can compel anybody to live with each other nor any court.....it's only 2 hearts which give spaces to each other.

If you feel .......! you still have space for her then carry on .......

or else go for permanent settlement and separation with her as dragging the mute relationship can't be asked for any happy speech further.

A married life is not a burden of a detective agency where husband or wife should be always on his/her toe to find the clue to get him or her down in the eyes of each other with every incidences.

It's better to part away amicably rather than reluctantly carrying the dead relationship for the sake of society.

Trust and natural affection is the oxygen for every healthiest married life.

Please forgive the Indian judiciary for such an egoistic disputes at least.

Thanks & regards

(ESIS)