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Joseph Wilfred (Voluntarily Retired from Indian Overseas Bank)     28 December 2012

Dissolution of marriage under special marriage act

I HAVE ALREADY POSTED THE CRUELTY METED OUT TO ME IN DETAIL IN THIS FORUM ON 07/12/2012 AND 14/12/2012 WHICH IS SELF EXPLANATORY . NORMALLY WHEN SHE DESERTS ME I DON'T GO AND SEARCH WHERE SHE IS RESIDING BECAUSE I KNOW VERY WELL THAT IT WAS A MASTER PLAN WITH THE FULL KNOWLEDGE OF HER ELDER BROTHER RESIDING IN MADRAS AND ELDER SISTER RESIDING AT MADURAI AND YOUNGER SISTER RESIDING AT KERALA . ONE MORE PERSON THE RELATIONSHIP WHAT SHE TELLS IS HER MOTHER'S ELDER SISTER'S DAUGHTER'S SON WHO OBTAINED REV. DEGREE IN NOVEMBER 2005 FROM THE INSTITUTION FROM WHICH MANY HAD GOT PASTOR , REV. , AND BISHOP DEGREES WITHIN 6 MONTHS OF HIS COMING TO MADRAS FROM QUILON IN KERALA. SOME BISHOPS WHO OBTAINED DEGREES FROM THAT INSTITUTION WERE ARRESTED ABOUT 4 OR 5 YEARS BACK AND ARE IN BAIL NOW.HE IS RESIDING WITH HIS WIFE AND HIS MOTHER 3 KMS FROM MY PLACE . HE EXECUTES THE MASTER PLAN . WHY I DID NOT GIVE ANY WRITTEN COMPLAINT ON HIM WAS BECAUSE OF THE REASON THAT I CANNOT FACE THE WRATH OF MY WIFE THEREAFTER. I HAVE ALREADY POSTED IN THIS COLUMNS THAT MY WIFE AND DAUGHTER HAD GIVEN A MINIMUM OF 10 COMPLAINTS TO THE CONTROL ROOM 100 AND WRITTEN COMPLAINTS ALSO TO THE LOCAL POLICE STATION . ALTHOUGH THE POLICE COME IMMEDIATELY MOSTLY AFTER 10.00 P.M .AND CALL ME FOR INVESTIGATION I REFUSE ON THE GROUND THAT IF THERE IS ANY INJURY ON THEM INTERNAL OR EXTERNAL YOU TAKE THEM TO THE HOSPITAL AND GET A CERTIFICATE AND FILE AN FIR .BECAUSE IN EVERY MATTER I WOULD HAVE FACED INTERNAL AND EXTERNAL INJURIES AND THE POLICE WILL NOT GIVE ME AN OPPURTUNITY TO PROVE IT AND LEAVE MY HOUSE . BUT THIS CREATES SEVERE MENTAL AND PHYSICAL STRESS ON ME .I AM ALREADY A HYPERTENSION PATIENT .LATER IN 1994 I WAS DIAGONISED AS A CHRONIC DEPRESSION PATIENT .IN JANUARY I HAD MY FIRST SEIZURE , CONCUSSION AND CONVULSIONS AND I WAS ADMITTED TO THE HOSPITAL WHERE MY FAMILY DOCTOR WILL SAVE MY LIFE EVERYTIME . MY FAMILY HERE IS MY DAD [ LATE ] ,MY MUM [ LATE ] ,AND MY BROTHER AND SISTERS WILL GO TO THAT HOSPITAL ONLY . MY WIFE AND MY DAUGHTER WILL GO TO THAT HOSPITAL ONLY . THE MASTER PLAN I HAVE MENTIONED HERE AND THE EXECUTION OF THAT AND THE INVOLVEMENT OF OTHERS MENTIONED ABOVE AND THE HARASSMENT BY THE POLICE CAN BE PROVED BY MOBILE CALLS FROM MY WIFE'S AND DAUGHTER'S MOBILES . CAN I PROVE ALL THIS IN THE NEW AMENDED LAW. EVEN THIS TIME I DON'T KNOW WHERE THEY ARE ? THE POLICE WERE THERE WHEN THEY LOADED 99 % OF MY HOUSEHOLD THINGS . THIS IS NOT THE DUTY OF THE POLICE , I HOPE .ON THE DAY THAT IS 1ST DECEMBER 2012 THEY LEFT POLICE CAME TWICE TO MY HOUSE . THE FIRST TIME IN THE MORNING WHEN THEY ASSAULTED ME IN MY HOUSE AND THE SECOND TIME TO VACATE THE HOUSE . BUT I HAVE INFORMED THE INSPECTOR [ LAW & ORDER ] ON THAT DAY NIGHT ITSELF THAT ALL THESE CRUELTY METED OUT TO ME IN ADDITION TO OTHERS WILL COME IN THE PETITION FOR DISSOLUTION OF MARRIAGE THAT WILL BE FILED LATER . MY WIFE HAD NO INTENTION OF FILING ANY DIVORCE PETITION .ONLY I HAVE TO FILE THIS . I DON'T WANT TO FILE THIS IN THE FAMILY COURT BECAUSE THERE WE HAVE TO FACE EACH OTHER AND OUR LAWYERS CANNOT SPEAK THERE. SINCE I AM A SEIZURE PATIENT I CANNOT BEAR THAT STRESS AS MY SEIZURE TYPE IS DUE TO EXECESSIVE STRESS WHEN APPLIED IT WILL CAUSE GREAT ELECTRICAL ACTIVITY IN A PARTICULAR PART OF THE BRAIN AND JUST AS THE FUSE GOES OFF SEIZURE OCCURS. NEURO PSYCHIATRISTS FROM THE UNIVERSITY OF CAMBRIDGE IN A LECTURE AT VOLUNTARY HEALTH SERVICES CHENNAI HAD STATED THAT THIS TYPE OF SEIZURE CAN BE INDUCED USING ELECTRODES IN THAT PARTICULAR PART OF THE BRAIN .THIS SEIZURE CAN CAUSE DEATH , COMA , HEART ATTACK AND PARALYTIC ATTACK. ALL OF THEM ARE FULLY AWARE OF THIS AND HAD CREATED THE WORST SITUATIONS SO THAT I MAY DIE . BUT MY GOOD GOD HAD SAVED ME AND I AM STAYING IN MY HOUSE [ RENTED ] FROM 1ST DECEMBER 2012 ALONE . CAN I BRING OUT ALL THESE IN THE NEW LAW ? I WANT TO FILE THE PETITION IN THE HIGH COURT ONLY UNDER SPECIAL MARRIAGE ACT BECAUSE I NEED NOT MEET  ANYBODY FACE TO FACE. IS THERE ANY OPPURTUNITY FOR CROSS EXAMINATION OF EACH AND EVERYONE INVOLVED ? WILL THE COURT CALL FOR THE PHONE CONVERSATIONS OF EVERYBODY INVOLVED IN THIS IF I PROVIDE THE DETAILS OF THE PHONE CALLS WITH DATE AND TIME ? THE NEXT IMPORTANT MATTER IS WHEN I GET BACK MY BANK JOB WITH ARREARS OF PAY FROM 1995 CAN MY WIFE CLAIM ANY SHARE FROM THAT .SHE GOT       RS.14 LACS AS RETIREMENT BENEFITS IN THE FIRST WEEK OF NOVEMBER 2012 AND SHE TOOK EVERYTHING . HER MONTHLY PENSION IS RS 16,000/- PER MONTH AFTER COMMUTATION OF PENSION .I AM NOT BOTHERED ABOUT HER MONEY AT ALL RIGHT FROM OUR MARRIAGE IN 1989. BUT I KNOW THAT I MUST GIVE TO MY ONLY DAUGHTER .WHAT PERCENTAGE THE COURT WILL DECIDE FOR MY DAUGHTER . I AM READY TO GIVE THAT . WHY I WANT DISSOLUTION OF MARRIAGE IS NOT FOR ANY REMARRIAGE AS THIS ONE IS ENOUGH FOR ME . I SHOULD NOT GET INVOLVED IN ANY CRIMINAL CASES IF I DON'T GET DISSOLUTION OF MARRIAGE .I WANT TO LIVE IN PEACE FOR THE REMAINING PART OF MY LIFE .- JOSEPH WILFRED - 28/12/2012 AT 22.30 HRS.  



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Nadeem Qureshi (Advocate/ nadeemqureshi1@gmail.com)     29 December 2012

Dear querist

you should contacted a lawyer in your area for best opinion.

Tajobsindia (Senior Partner )     29 December 2012

Observation first:
The next time you choose to address the forum use lower caps and not upper caps. Using upper caps format it looks you are shouting at us.

Now the remedies:
1. You cannot directly approach HC for divorce. One needs to file in jurisdiction where cause of action happened that is in a Family Court.
2. One has to prove the grounds 50:50 by cross examine witnesses including wife. One need to self access if due to narrated medical reason one can sustain court pressure or not and then take a call to file or not? For that there is no short cut cometh as suggestion. Instead stay for some more time as it is and regain health and then file divorce so that once body can take the Court pressure just bze you yourself say your wife is not going to file one and secondly you said you have no plans to get re-married so what is the hurry is my inference here !
3. Child maintenance can be sent right now as per your capacity by way of money order or by cheque sent to mother's address without any demand provided child is still minor. How much to pay we cannot say or how much court will grant also cannot say as your income details is not mentioned.
4. Since your wife is already getting pension her maintenance is out of question.
5. Criminal cases against you we also cannot guess, it all depends on your wife's mood read with her company of men and agent she may keep and get carried away in future to experiment upon you some criminal nature cases.

Hope your questions are also attended too?

Joseph Wilfred (Voluntarily Retired from Indian Overseas Bank)     29 December 2012

Dear Mr.Tajobsindia , Senior Partner

                                                                YOU HAVE TOTALLY MISTAKEN ME BECAUSE I AM TYPING IN CAPITAL LETTERS .THAT DOES NOT MEAN THAT I AM SHOUTING AT YOU OR ANYBODY ELSE . I HAVE NEVER SHOUTED AT ANYBODY EVEN AT HOME OR IN MY OFFICE . I AM A VERY SOFT SPOKEN PERSON . IF YOU WANT TO TEST MY BONAFIDES YOU MAY GIVE YOUR MOBILE NUMBER AND ASK ME TO CONTACT YOU AT A TIME CONVENIENT TO YOU . I WILL CALL YOU AND YOU CAN VERY WHETHER I AM SHOUTING AT YOU OR NOT . I AM TYPING IN CAPITAL IN LETTERS BECAUSE I CAN READ WITHOUT ANY DIFFICULTY WHAT I AM TYPING .I AM WEARING GLASSES HAVING 2 POWERS FOR READING AND 2 POWERS FOR DISTANT VISION, THE ANGLE AT 130 DEGREES FROM THE AGE OF 25. NOW THAT I HAVE UNDERGONE 2 MICRO INCISION CATARACT SURGERIES WITH IMPLANTATION OF FOLDABLE LENS ONE FOR THE LEFT EYE ON 14/05/2012 AND ANOTHER FOR MY RIGHT EYE ON 19/05/2012 AT THE AGE OF 56 ITSELF . NOW THE SPECTACLES PRESCRIBED FOR ME HAS " CYLINDRICAL AS WELL AS SPHERICAL " POWERS . FOR READING 4 LENS FOR BOTH THE EYES AND FOR DISTANT VISION 4 LENS FOR BOTH THE EYES . BOTH CYLINDRICAL AND SPEARICAL LENS FOR READING FOR EACH EYE AND CYLINDRICAL AND SPEARICAL LENS FOR DISTANT VISION FOR EACH EYE . TOTALLY 8 LENS FOR BOTH MY EYES . THIS WAS THE REASON WHY I AM TYPING IN CAPITAL LETTERS .I USE SMALL LETTERS ONLY FOR PASSWORDS . EVEN FOR INTERNET BANKING MY PASSWORD WILL BE CAPITAL LETTERS ONLY . PLEASE DON'T MISTAKE ME THAT I AM STILL USING CAPITAL LETTERS.- JOSEPH WILFRED - 29/12/2012 AT 22.29 HRS   


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