question is you want to continue or not. IF answer is No be prepared for DV, 498A.
I dont know what your networth or ancenstral property is, parents etc.
Gather evidence.
Talk to a lawyer.
Be sure to have proofs of your location that will come handy when she says you abused her on so date. if possible install a webcam in secret to record days of activity
before filing case make sure your parents are safe. relocate them elsewhere. if you are living with parents move them away get rental record so you can show they are not living with you might provide them protection.
File for AB for yourseld and parents separately. Even if yours is rejected parents might be accepted.
Get lots of proofs. Is she working. Get salary statements and proof of employment.
You have to stay strong and make sure you have few people who can work for you if you were to be arrested. Get a good lawyer.
You might have to pay maintenance or alimony to get rid of her.
DONT have children under any circumstances.
join 498a.org savefamilyindia yahoo groups and local networks.
Get your manager into confidence so he is not surprises when she writes letters to your company.
God Bless. Better spend a year or two in torture than the rest of your life.