@ Author,
1. When (month/year) you got spouse Visa issued in her name is not known ? How you are communicating with her to come and live with you is also not known?
2. If she is requesting you to you to come to her home and from there take her with you then in absence of any other private issues it is suggested to follow such private requests instead of breaking a marriage. Her parents - relative not respecting you is no ground to break your marriage ! She vehemently requesting you to come to her home to take her with you is also not a ground for her to refuse to live with you. After marriage a lady goes to her husband's place to live with him and with consent of husband she visits her natal home which is Asian practice in marriage.
3. But, many Courts have now-a-days said that wife not accompanying husband to place where he works is neither "cruelty" nor "desertion". It depends how one argues in Court. Keeping such odd succinct views of Courts in absence of any other valid ground (other than para 2) I see difficulty in filing divorce suit matter with results in your favor unless 'constructive' desertion is proved by your side with proofs of making of such offers and her constant refusals. Letters exchanged, hotel bills (MAA Apt.), Visa sent to her, money transfer to her a/c to make travel arrangements to come to your place of livings etc. are such proofs.
4. However, after trying persuading her to join for 2 years and 'constructive' refusal from her to live with you at your current place of living overseas, one may file divorce under 'desertion' ground. To use ground under 'desertion' the other spouse have to be shown to be living separate without valid reason with an intent to break marriage. For the same you need to appoint a local advocate found via reference and after due diligence.
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