Please Guide on this case, which is follows.
1. I am a husband currently living in another city, away from my wife and daughter for past two years due to Job Requirements. My daughter is going to be 21 (a student) and my wife is about 52. I am 55. She is a working, self employed professional.
2. About 7 years back my wife was in a romantic relationship with another man about which I discovered and made her realize the futility of such an extra marital relationship. After much initial denials she accepted her folly but again went back to her romantic relationship. This happened thrice and during this period she wrote three confessions (one in handwritting and two typed), signed them (which are in my custody) every time assuring that she will not repeat her mistakes.
3. One of our verbal understanding during that stressful period was that we both will keep open our all email accounts and other financial non-financial account passwords accessible to both of us.
4. Life went back to normal and was smooth till a few months back when I started getting signals that something was not right. She started hiding messages and wont share passwords etc, saying she needed space and privacy. During this period she invited a person home to stay over night in my absense and told me about this when i came home. This person, is also mentioned in those confession letters (I had asked her not to keep in touch with him since I did not find him very straightforward).
5. Lately she has been saying things like: I dont want to keep any relationship. Dont Come home and disturb us etc. etc. I suspect there is something going between them. That person who lives in another city near my wife's residence, also gives her gifts like expensive iPhones etc. He is also married (i think it is his second marriage). He also gives her cash (i know of one instance where he has given her cash in lieu of using my wife's credit card). She like a fool also shared her credit card info with this person.
6. One of the mobiles she has been using is registered in my name. In a fit of anger a couple of days back i blocked that SIM and now I have a replacement card in my custody through through which I can access her email account and unearth very damaging information (i beleive but not sure).
I want to know by doing so would I be liable for any offence?
I want us to get back but I also want to know the truth. So should I try to access her mail?
I dont know what action (legal or otherwise) she is planning because she has come to know that i know/suspect of her endevours. On one occassion she has also travelled with that person to another city. This i Know by the Rail Records which I have obtained from the Ministry of Railways.
At this stage I do not want what legal or other options are available for me.
Suggestions will be welcome.
Thanks
