Hi, 

I am a 28 years old women, I have been married for 6 months now, it was a love marriage after 2.5 years of courtship, we got married in Dec 2011. I am not sure but I am thinking of getting a divorce as its getting increasingly difficult for both of us to be together and their are fights for over all small issues, I feel he do not love me as much as before and staying together in one house is also a problem. 

I am a north indian and working in Bangalore, I feel very lonely as I cannot discuss my problem with anyone not with my family also, I am very confused what I should do? Please suggest. 

Consult a good marriage councellor and try to resolve the situation.

Also you cannot file for divorce before completion of one year of marriage, so there is no point in thinking of divorce now (till the completion of 1yr). So better use this period and do some serious attempts of reconciliation by taking some professional help.

Yes, if your husband is reluctant to meet a professional counsellor - involve mutual friends/elders. If nothing works out then think about a divorce 

Consultation I dont think will change our behaviour towards each other, we fight and then again we are together, he just loose his patients and have hot me few times as well, he says its his home and have asked me to leave, I know he does this in anger may be, but living with all this is difficult for me, when I think about my family I stop thinking about divorce as they will be very shocked. 

I differ with Ld.Archana ji on this - divorce can be filed the very next day of marriage itself if there is exceptional depravitiy or hardship to you. But do try your hand at counselling first, though even in divorce proceedings the family court would counsel you 

@ Ay_123,

I think this is differance in temparament and natures. You both need some time to make space for each other and develop and good understanding. In my opinion a good councellor who has a good understanding of human behaviour and psychology can definately help you. Do not think of divorce at this time.

@Adv. Bharat Chugh,

I know that divorce can be filed within one year on the ground of exceptional hardship. But from the post of the author I do not think this is a case of exceptional hardship so I suggested in this way.

i dont think that divorce is a good idea...you need to discuss the issue with your husband..

Thank you Adv Archana and Adv Bharat, for taking out time to reply to my post, My dad is a Lawyer as well, but the irony is I just cannot discuss with him :( 

I know my husband will not agree to go to a concellor and I dont even know how can I say this to him, not getting how to manage and stay happily with such a short tempered guy. I know its too early for me to call for a divorce, but dont know why I feel this is the solution and he too wants this, he always says he was happy before marraige and why has he marry me...all this things are very torturing for me. 

He is very money minded and so is his family, every month I give him my entire salary. still I don't understand what the problem is, before marriage they demanded certain amount of money, which my family could not cater too, but still they did whatever they could. I feel I just got married without thinking about all this and now I am realizing it. staying together is very difficult hence I think seperation is the solution. I do feel he will be happy too and he do not want me around.