I am married since 2008. We have a child out of our wedlock in 2009. He is around 9 years old. I need to apply for divorce and get custody of my child because of the following reasons:
1) My wife was married before but she divorced her first husband.( I was not informed and kept under dark. Being from a decent family, we just met their parents and decided to get married once they approached us thru matrimonial site)
2) Secondly she married a Muslim guy for second time and did nikahnama with him. She even gave birth to his child but unfortunately the child died within same day after his birth because of medical reasons. ( I received all this info from her ex husband who approached me on social site last year and showed me his chat with her and her previous emails to him. He even showed an image of their nikahnama. My wife says she was trapped but she never revealed this story to me previously). Also they never divorced legally but she just left him after staying for few months or year together. She now threatens this guy too.
3) After my marriage, she developed relationship with my NRI friend. I had proofs of his ticket to visit her hometown, His photograph with her while holidaying abroad, email in her inbox narrating about her physical relationship with him (copy with me). Here again, she lied that they are just friends and i am exagerrating the matter. But Proofs says different story. Can't believe her anymore.
Till now, I kept mum for sake of my child but its all over. I felt like being cheated. Since last 1.5 years I am visiting her but not staying with her. She lives abroad with my child. She is from big business family and threatens me that she can buy the judiciary and f*** my life but will never give the child back to me. She has sufficient money and her own house abroad.She has put conditions that either i leave my parents in India and live with her for our son without any marital flings or expectations from her. I cant do this. We had physical fights and abuses while staying together.
moreover, I was educated abroad and was working abroad before my marriage. After my marriage, they asked me to help them in their export business. While I was away busy in developing their business abroad, all these things happened and i got to know about this very late. Her business family always kept me busy and played with my career and life and has taken my child away from me now. I am suffering both financially and emotionally now.
But I think if I stay mum, She might spoil the life of some other person. She is a fraud and emotionless woman. She just had physical desires. Also my child will see a bad upbringing with her under such circumstance. So I want to fight for his sake