Thanks for all your advises, thank u Radhika, I am not convinced that I got a good advice, bottomline, I do not want to give my properities to this _____... it is meant to my daughter, how do I protect my properties, not for my ex & her boy friend's entertainment. Please advice in right direction please..my hard earnings are meant for my children. Please..please suggest.. how do I protect my properties to handover to right owners. Can I file IP and transfer to my well wishers ? Please suggest.. don't figth along gender lines..I still don't believe all are same.. it is more like an isolated _____..