Family problem

Sit with her and Discuss whats going on in your Mind and realize her that because of her behaviour what trama you are facing and give her some time to change things around her...if the situation remains the same...  Go for Mutual Divorce,

if she is not getting convinced for mcd file divorce u/s 13a hma on grounds of cruelty

it is very simple to decide about divorce but in your case a small kid is also involved so who will take care of the kid

mutual consent divorce means both decide for separation legally and jointly applying for divorce and has to file a petition on first motion and six months time period will be there for mediation through court appointed for reconcile and after six months again both has to appear for second motion were final decision of your both will be for divorce and court will order the decree

NCW is a national commission for women cell

The Complaints and Invetigation Cell of the commission processes the complaints received oral, written or suo moto under Section 10 of the NCW Act.

The complaints received relate to domestic violence, harassment, dowry, torture, desertion, bigamy, rape, refusal to register FIR, cruelty by husband, deprivation, gender discrimination and s*xual harassment at work place.

The complaints are tackled as below :-

Investigations by the police are expedited and monitored.

Family disputes are resolved or compromised through counseling. 

The State Commission, the NGOs and other experts are involved in these efforts.

The complaints are analyzed to understand the gaps in routine functioning of government in tackling violence against women and to suggest corrective measures.

IT very easy to break.  but life become compilcated for kid you and wife.  Think and make a move.  Sacrifice yourself for the sake of kid.  all the best.

SK, no matter how much you talk to her and make her realize what needs to be done to save the marriage but it will be in vain. Your wife needs psychiatric treatment, she may be suffering from personality disorder (Bipolar, read about it on the internet and send me PM ). Her sudden mood swings, suicidal tendencies, extreme rage is dangerous, she could be a potential 498a candidate.

Don't go to the women cell, you will only inflate her anger and ego. You need to get elders involved to arrest the root cause of the problem, 

You could have experienced no involvement from her parents/brother in understanding your point of view, correct ??  Denial or refusal to accept the problem will never allow you to have a peaceful married life. 

Contact Local Lawyer and filed case against her for divorce on ground of cruelty.Best of Luck..

Sk, based on the facts mentioned ........I told u she needs psychiatric treatment. Your wife will never accept she has a problem nor her parents  bcos they would either don't know that such problem exists OR don't want to accept which would give you a ground to call them fraud for hiding such important information from you. Also they have transferred the headeache to you and expect you to deal with it as ur her Pati-parmeshwar !!

Your problem is your's and ur inlaws would not help you in any way it seems. Right now you gather evidences of cruelty by your wife & play safe.

Send a letter  (as a legal formality) to your inlaws mentioning the marital issue and seek their guidance and help, do emphasize on behavioural aspects of your wife and need for counselling/treatment if required. Do not directly mention she has a problem but say you would stand by her if she needs any psychiatric treatment. If you feel threatened give a copy of that letter to local police station so that in case of any suicide attempt or harm done by your wife  the police would know the situation.

In my personal opinion try your best to part ways mutually, even if that calls for paying up alimony , do it and buy peace as her behavior would never change, unless she undergoes treatment on a regular basis