DIVORCE FROM TORTURING WIFE
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Anonymous
(Querist) 31 December 2010
This query is : Resolved
SIR WE HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR MORE THAN 8 YEARS. MY WIFE FILE 3R CASE AGAINST ME AND MY MOTHER. SHE IS NOT AT ALL READY TO LISTEN. SHE FEELS I AM BAD. BUT SHE DOESN'T WANT TO GIVE DIVORCE.SHE IS LISTENING TO HER PARENTS AND FINDING FAULT AT EVERYTHING. ALSO SHE IS HAVING AFFAIR.BUT I DON'T HAVE any proof. she doesnt allow me to stay with her.After discussing with elders , i went and stay with her. after few months...she started fighting and forced me to vacating the house by making complaint to the police.
She is acting as if she is good and am bad..she is not ready to discuss and solve the problem. if any asks about our problem, she will keep blaming for hours,but she will not take any decision. She is trying to make others believe that i am bad and she is good.But her intention is not to either live with me or divorce me.
i tried everything....including counseling...where ever we go...she simply blames and want to live separately. this is happening for several years.she is taking advantage of my sufferings and taking revenge....
even police advised me not to stay with her and told me to marry some one.
i ma struggling a lot...... i tried everything....nothing worked out.
after fling case , she was telling me , if u had vacated the house, i wouldn't have filed case.
her intention is that she does want to live with me and not ready for divorce.she is saying everyone whoever asks that i am bad but she needs husband. but i lost job 2 times because of her and suffering due to loneliness.
She is happy even if i die. but she will not take any decision and will live like this.
Who ever asks her she will cry and make them believe that i am the worst person in the world..
struggling a lot.....please help me sir....
one case is pending against me...
I don't know how to approach...
please help me sir..
Arvind Singh Chauhan
(Expert) 31 December 2010
File a suit for restitution of conjugal rights and take help of mediation center. Beware that never blame of having affair it would go against you unless you have sufficient proof. If no solution is found then apply for divorce.
