Lost faith in myself,Love,Marriage And God..Thanks to Wife..

have you tried every advice given to you in your previous threads. did your wife really leave you? or is the matter in court, etc. if so be positive. things sometimes change.

you and your wife and other family members are in need of  conciliation.

We are living in a topsy turvy World: If you dont get married peole will triggered their missiles with those silly questions why you are not married etc etc etc. If you get married you get into that mess not only with your wife but your so called in laws etc etc etc that you get emotionally, physically, socially  and fiancially etc get exhaustewd. But those who are married and who keeps on pastering you with your celbacy are in fact jealous of your blessed state of life as they know marriage means a sure life of Hell and my even drive you to suicide. I have come across several divorce husbands and their suggestions is dont get married and I know it is true. But I must also admit that before committing yourself to a woman be sure that it is the right woman for you, if not dont go for marriage. There is a saying for those single man. "There are many milks in the market , so dont tied a single cow in your house only to drive you mad.

start living your life buddy ..... why the heck are you stuck with a b*tch ...... move on .... forget past !!

dear members...

                                   i still really want to see my wife,talk to her...i dont expect her to come back  but atleast i want to try...but im not getting any option for it...as my inlaws r staying in a rented house...they have recently changed there residence and nobody knows abt their current place...so that anybody can go and talk...i have their phone numbers but  whenever anyone calls them..instead of listening they start abusing and threatening that they will lodge cases in court ...i have not been divorced but im seperated by panchayat and already given permanent alimony...now this seperation was forced...and i was forced to give this money bcs they were not only accusing me but also my other family members who were living kms away from me and my wife...so i didnt wanted to put them in trouble so i gave this money ...

and regarding the legal way....she is legally still my wife...but if i try to file rcr i dont know which way it will shoot out...if i will go to police or women cell...thats also of no use bcs now i have seen society is such a crazy entity...man is always blamed for everything...woman just sheds some tears and becomes sita...this is the way society works...

i want to talk to her but im not able to find any way ..

hire a detective to find out where they live. you must tactfully play out your next moves. if they have a landline there address could be listed in the telephone directory.

well said sam

It is not good on your part to be in such sad state and conflict in life.  You are bold my boy get the old courage of yourself and solve the life problems, family problems, first it requires calmness in you. Think and act dont lose confediance. Your love towards your wife will clear all family problems.