She troubled me in a lot of ways. She acted smartly and filed FIRs for her evidence. First she spreaded the news that she would file Dowry case against me. In this way my wife distanced my relatives. And whenever someone called her over the phone for compromise, she used to blame me for hours. Her main intention was that she is good and I am the worst person in this world so she is not ready to live with me. She used to tell everyone that she wants to live with me after some period also she needs husband for her and father for my son. This has been the story for the last several years.
She never attempted to solve this problem .She was never ready to discuss the problem with me. She simply considered me as a criminal and always tried to findout mistakes for not living together. I was the one at regular intervals tried to contact her and solve this problem in the past. She simply wanted to postpone this problem for some reason. She never gave importance to me to our problems. Even she visited Onsite couple of times leaving my son at her hometown (when we were not living together). I came to know later about this. This story is endless.
Even people directly ask me about my wife’s affair with someone. One of my native person told me to take care of my life as she might do some harm to me with the help of her boyfriend. Some people say she didn’t like our physical relationship so she wants me to keep away from her by saying some reason and She might come to for money at the later point of life after she gets bored with someone. People see this kind of problems in their every days life. People know when a lady is not ready to live with her husband and for what reason she is not ready.
That too I am not waste fellow and earning handsome money. Old people say , it is difficult to change a lady until unless she realizes(when she is under the influence of someone). Right now she is like a queen for her own territory. She earns a lot of money and get satisfied with her physical needs and also have peoples sympathy. So strongly feels my company is not required for her. I am an extra luggage for her. I am suffering by the name of marriage without proper food etc.. How long I can live alone like this. I am getting aged. At least I need some one with me to share my feelings.
It is not the age to get friendship. I don’t have any bad habits. Now I am forced to think about alternate ways like illegal marriage or having relationship with some one. This is what people advise me. But my mind still not accepting and suffering. Why law makers didn’t understand about the other side of coin? . This society forces me to do something which i don’t like. God only knows the truth. Just imagine my mental state that I am going through for the last several years. I am an educated and emotional fool who didn’t know how to handle this problem.
Can I apply for Divorce/RCR from my home town where we got married?. Right now we both are in different state.
If I file RCR/Divorce at my native place, can she transfer the case to Bangalore by stating that she is working in Bangalore and sun is also studying in Bangalore?
I also don’t know whether the Last FIR filed against me and my mother is pending or withdrawn?. How to find out this?.
Can she file Dowry/DV case against me as I am not living with her for the last 15 months so.. She has house on her name in Bangalore. Even I don’t know where it is. I don’t know anything about her salary. How to get details about her property and income? I