hi i am married from last 14years and 2 childrens and live saprate from last 8 months . my wife provke me and when i start shout or slap her she calls cops as my bussines is not doing well . this happend from last 11 years as i saprated from my parents side because of her .now i want suggestion that should i file the case first or wait from her rest.she and her family not to agreed to setle the matter simply . iam not in a good mantle stage so pis. suggs me what to do.