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Sam (A.P)     05 November 2012

Blackmailing to show fear of dowry and other cases

Hi,

I am a doctor serving govt job. I was married in 09 and we have a son . My wife is housewife still. we live together at my place but away from my parents since she came . My wife and in laws are harassing me since beginning . My wife is taking maximum amount of my salary(75-80%) which I am giving her through check. Still she is not happy and use to blackmail me against dowry case. I havenot taken any jewelary or cash from them during marriage. My in laws keep on learn her such false things . 

What can be done now , how can take I precaution for me and my parents .



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Rahul Kapoor (Legal Enthusiast)     05 November 2012

secure evidence against her and record the payment which u r giving to her..

find the attached document.

 

 

regards-

rahul.gogreen@gmail.com


Attached File : 848312262 498asurvivalguide.pdf downloaded: 132 times

Adv.R.P.Chugh (Advocate/Legal Consultant (rpchughadvocatesupremecourt@hotmail.com))     05 November 2012

Dear Querist,

 

Read the following article :-

How to fight a false 498A/406? Strategy to pre-empt/prevent false dowry case and come out winning !

*This article endeavours to educate the sufferers of a false 498a/dowry case on how to defend a false case, it also tries to help thousands of families in and around India who are on the brink of facing such false cases on successfully pre-empting or guarding against such false cases.

 “For men in India marriage is a lottery but you can’t tear up your ticket even if you lose” and it’s not just you who would have to live with the lost lottery but your entire family may have to suffer at the hands of a system so grossly skewed in favour of women.

Marriages may fall apart for a lot of reasons, temperamental issues, compatibility problems, but does that make you an offender in the eyes of law? Yes it does, your estranged wife in order to have her way in arm-twisting you may implicate you and your family in end number of false cases, 498A being the foremost.

498A penalizes cruelty for dowry, almost always comes along with S.406 Allegations which basically penalize the criminal breach of trust, when your wife’s articles are entrusted to you and you fail to return them back – misappropriate them or convert them to own use – you are criminally liable !. By aid of S.34 of the Indian Penal Code – your family/relatives can be held liable for the same if they share the common intention with you.

Now if you think that you have a wife who can potentially do this for money or the kicks that her ego gets out of the same or pure vengeance then you are my friend in a vulnerable situation, but there is a silver lining to this, there are legal strategies that may help minimize, if not completely rule out, the damage or mischief that may occur to you.

Being a Supreme Court Advocate and a Men’s Rights Activist I speak from experience, the following things may(if done correctly) help in a lot of cases :-

1. Insist on a dowry-less marriage – Preparing of list of articles received at the time of marriage, countersigned by both the families, would help rule out exaggerated claims later !

2. Digging the well before the fire starts; when trouble starts at home you apprise all concerned of the problems that you are facing, not for the purposes of any action but information;

If you see things going awry in near future, then it would be good idea to seperate from parents to a rented house with sufficient public notices;

3. As per the prevailing law atleast here in Delhi, if your wife approaches a Police Station with her complaint, she is to be forwarded CAW CELL instituted to try and reconcile and investigate and act as buffers so that penal actions are not initiated right away. Once the matter goes to CAW Cell – apply for an anticipatory bail , you are sure to get notice bail atleast – this would help in two ways :-

a) Give you greater confidence, level playing field in the CAW Cell talks;

b) Prevent any hasty arrest on failure of conciliation;

All in all nothing to lose in this and in this step 1. Would help a great deal.

4. Seek a copy of complaint via RTI ASAP, since they deny at the first instance you’d have to appeal there from which may take some time. There are CIC Decisions that would help you here.

5. In the event of an FIR being registered apply for AB again, and quashing of FIR (not always depends on the kind of allegations leveled)

6. Filing Restitution of Conjugal Rights (case that you want her back) may help in some cases, but not in all. Sometimes it helps in defending maintenance cases, and showing your bona fides.

7. Keep a check on your wife’s finances. Would come handy defending maintenance cases.

8. Prosecution (S.340 CrpC) for perjury in cases of false & exaggerated claims in maintenance petitions.

9. Tax Evasion Petitions once you get the List of Istridhan may also help put pressure.

10. Dowry Prohibition Act – penalizes giving of dowry so in case there is a clear admission of DOWRY (not Istridhan) then in that case your in laws are also liable to be prosecuted. Think on these lines !

11. With a marital property law on the anvil, don’t buy property in your name, much less jointly with spouse.

The above may go a great deal helping you defend correctly, my advise would be to stand your ground, don’t give in to their extortionate tactics, once you’d get an AB the worst would already be over and after that the judicial system with it’s endemic delays won’t treat your wife differently, sooner or later she would realize that frivolous litigation doesn’t pay !

 

The Author is a Supreme Court Advocate, and a Mens Rights Activist and can be reached at bharat.law06@gmail.com

Chetan Joshi (Advisory/Advocacy)     05 November 2012

Keep a track of her behaviour/demands as evidences which is gonna help you in future litigation(god forbid)...

 

you can read the attachment by  I AM ALTRUIST...

 

Regards

 

Chetan.7679@gmail.com

 

 

 

Shonee Kapoor (Legal Evangelist - TRIPAKSHA)     05 November 2012

Dr. Sa'ab,

 

First things first, decide what you want in life. Is the relationship dead or can it be salvaged for the sake of your child.

 

Threats are fine, all such ground work is also fine, however, if the lady is bent upon filing 498a. You can not pre-empt it. You can just be ready for it. That is what these documents tell you.

 

However, all said and done, in most of the states, 498a has lost its sting. Better look at your marriage holistically again rather than just trying to safeguard against arrest.

 

Regards,

 


Shonee Kapoor

Rashid Ali (own practice as a criminal lawyer)     06 November 2012

dear     first of all decide whether you may run your life with your wife or not.if option is yes than forget everything if option is no than lot of remedies are here to adopt. but remember if your option is no then take action when your wife would not staying with you or living seperately,or with her parents.


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