Mentally tortured by wife who is not ready to divorce

if you can prooved your's wife cruelty, you can file divorce petition under the hindu marriage act.

If you are actually intended to take a Divorce, you need to be guided well. 

I understand and can believe what you would be going through. There are so many cases where Husbands are being dominated but our society doesn't believe. But things have started changing and even The Hon'ble Court, understands that at some places, husbands are also the victim.

But after reading your post, I think you need to be guided well and you should take each and every step strategically. So contact a good lawyer with good drafting skills so that your part of the story can be presented well.

Not everything can be discussed here, so feel free to message or call.

Thanks & Regards

Advocate Abhishek Sinha

Sure you can Sir.

Thanks & Regards

Advocate Abhishek Sinha

The facts posted as to the alleged cruelty or wrong doing on the part of your wife is less than exp. in the light of your admitted infactuation for another married lady.  Your priority ought to be in saving the marriage, not wrecking it.

Moreover, the facts posted suggest that this is not a case of your wife failing as a wife and daughter-in-law, but your failings as a husband and a father, may be as a son as well. Your statement "I was forcibly blackmailed by my parents to ve a child and I gave in due to their pressure" is very very disappointing; it falls much below human dignity.

More than the lawyer you require the services of a competent counseller so that you could be woken up to be a respnsible son, husband and father!

 

Prima facie you are least interested with your wife and attached with your girl-friend, consequently planning for a divorce similar to your girl-friend.

Contact, consult and engage a local prudent lawyer, file a divorce petition and get rid of your wife and son so that you can be a free bird like your live-in partenr and enjoy her company .