…Contd….*** PART 2 *** Play like the MEN and NOT Like the BOYS--- Part 2 ________
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*** MUTUAL CONSENT DIVORCE IS THE BEST OPTION IF YOU DO NOT WANT HEAD-ACHE AND WANT EARLY FREEDOM ***
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Ok Guys, now, from this part onwards, it is very important. In one of the five parts, I WILL PROVIDE A
SAMPLE MoU and you may use the same with some modification as it suits you or without any modification.
Solution Related.
Guys, when you add the terms of the MoU to the MCD Petition, be alert and remember to add those
clauses of no-cases to be filed, no-dowry,…etc etc .
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The moment the MCD ( Mutual Consent Divorce ) is signed in the court ( not at the advocate’s office, but at the
court ), the matter is actually SUB-JUDICE.
After signing the MCD ( Mutual Consent Divorce ), Matter is actually SUB-JUDICE.
Sub-judice means UNDER THE CONSIDERATION OF THE COURT OF LAW.
In any sub-judice matter, the POLICE CANNOT FILE A FURTHER COMPLAINT pertaining to the same matter.
If the police file a further complaint relating to the same matter of MATRIMONIAL issue, even after the
MCD is signed at court by both of you, then THE POLICE WILL BECOME GUILTY OF
“ CONTEMPT OF COURT “.
It will go against the Police. They can be punished for CONTEMPT OF COURT.
When a matter is sub-judice (UNDER THE CONSIDERATION OF THE COURT OF LAW ), the police cannot
file a case, pertaining to the same matter. Here the matter is matrimonial matter.
If the POLICE SUMMON YOU, you can tell them that the MATTER IS SUB-JUDICE.
USE THE WORD SUB-JUDICE.
Tell them in their language " MATTER IS ALREADY IN COURT ".
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If your wife wants to file a case pertaining to the same matter, even after the MCD is signed in the court, then
she will have to either withdraw her consent for the mutual consent divorce by submitting a prayer to the court ( in which case you will be
intimated of the same ) or remain absent during the hearing and wait for the court to declare the divorce ex parte’ and then attempt to
contest it or after MCD is granted, within the 90 day period permitted for appeal, or even with delay condoned, she can submit a
prayer for revoking the MCD granted and state that she does not want a mutual consent divorce and then
the REGULAR DIVORCE can be chosen as her route or she may even opt out of divorce.
It is then that she can file all cases against you.
But not during the matter being SUB-JUDICE.
THAT IS WHY BOTH MEN AND WOMEN PRAY CONTINUOUSLY TO GOD DURING THE SUB-JUDICE PERIOD AND THE
90 DAY PERIOD OF APPEAL AFTER MCD IS OBTAINED, THAT HE / SHE DOES NOT CHANGE HER MIND.
SO USUALLY THE MAN AND WOMAN AND THEIR FAMILIES WILL REMAIN SILENT DURING THIS ENTIRE PERIOD, WITHOUT
EVEN ONE SINGLE SMS AND / OR PHONE CALL TO EACH OTHER.
BUT THE EMOTIONAL FOOLS WILL SPOIL THE GAME. THEY WILL KEEP DISCUSSING THE MATTER AT HOME,
AT THE PUB, AT THE BAR, ....etc etc etc AND SEND SMS in MOVIE-STYLE and DO SOME OR THE OTHER ACTION THAT WILL
PROVOKE THE OPPOSITE PARTY TO EITHER WITHDRAW THE CONSENT OR FILE AN APPEAL.
SO, first the art to be learnt and practised is the ART OF SILENCE.
USUALLY THE SMART WOMEN BECOME SMARTER DURING THIS PERIOD...THEY QUICKLY IDENTIFY A BOY-FRIEND
AND START SPENDING TIME WITH HIM TO EASILY FORGET THE EX-HUSBAND.
THERE HAVE BEEN CASES WHERE THE HUSBAND HAS SPOTTED THE EX-WIFE WITH A NEW BOY-FRIEND
AND APPEALED IN THE APPEAL PERIOD AFTER MCD, TO KEEP HIS IMAGE IN HER MEMORY AND
NOT LET GO SO EASILY.
THERE HAVE BEEN CASES WHERE THE WIFE HAS SPOTTED THE EX-HUSBAND WITH A NEW
LIVE-IN PARTNER AND/ OR GIRL-FRIEND AND APPEALED IN THE APPEAL PERIOD AFTER MCD,
TO KEEP HER IMAGE IN HIS MEMORY AND NOT LET GO SO EASILY.
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THERE HAVE BEEN MANY MANY CASES WHERE THE HUSBAND HAS MOVED ON AND MARRIED AGAIN AND THEN
THE DIVORCED EX-WIFE HAS JOINED HIM BACK AND HE HAS A LIVE-IN RELATIONSHIP WITH HER AND
SUSTAINS THE NEW MARRIAGE TOO.
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IF YOU SEE THE STRANGE INCIDENTS THAT HAPPEN, YOU WILL REALIZE HOW THE HUSBAND - WIFE BOND IS A
VERY VERY VERY DEEP BOND AND THAT IS WHY OUR ELDERS USED A PROVERB
" NEVER STEP IN BETWEEN A HUSBAND AND HIS WIFE AND THEIR FAMILY ( MATRIMONIAL ) MATTER ".
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BUT THIS VIOLATION OF THIS PROVERB IS EXACTLY WHAT THE ABNORMAL MOTHERS OF THE TEN PERCENT OF
ABNORMAL WOMEN DO AND WITH THEIR OWN HANDS,
THEY RUIN THE MATRIMONIAL LIFE OF THEIR DAUGHTER AND SON-IN-LAW.
IN THIS VIOLATION OF THIS PROVERB, FEMALE RELATIVES and OTHERS ( ESPECIALLY COLLEAGUES - BOTH MALE
AND FEMALE AND FRIENDS ) JOIN HANDS AND NETT-NETT THE WOMAN'S LIFE AND HER HUSBAND'S LIFE GOES FOR A TOSS.
Then, the male colleagues ( pervert fellows and criminals ) try to have her and the others try to run away after spoiling the show.
Anyway, this is a different twist in a matrimonial matter. Let us not discuss that in detail now.
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IN THE FIR, you can have ADDENDUM ( additional charges listed and added later ) but in a matter
ADMITTED BY THE COURT AND hence such a matter having obtained the status of SUB-JUDICE, an
addendum ( addition ) or anything based on some fresh charges or appeal or petition, cannot and shall not
be entertained by the court.
So, If the POLICE SUMMON YOU, you can tell them that the MATTER IS SUB-JUDICE.
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Truly speaking, the police inspector should first ISSUE A NOTICE to you ( accused ) and list the REASONS for
WHICH YOU HAVE TO MEET HIM. The terms and conditions should be clearly listed in the notice.
Especially if you are a first-time accused and previously there are no cases against you
in the same or in other matters.
so, you are a FIRST-TIME accused ( offence not proven yet ) and NOT a HABITUAL OFFENDER.
USUALLY, In bailable offences and in offences with punishment less than 3 years, the police inspector
should first ISSUE A NOTICE to you ( accused ) and list the REASONS for WHICH YOU HAVE TO MEET HIM.
You CANNOT BE SUMMONED just like that to the police station.
But to avoid matters getting out of control and to pacify the complainant and to see if a case can be avoided, in
GOOD INTENT, or if the police feel you will not co-operate with the investigation, then they can summon you to
the Police Station.
Even summoning cannot be done between 10 P.M. to 6 A.M.
If senior citizens ( your parents ) and children are also summoned ( Yes, some crazy women have filed
case against even 7 years old young boy – child of their brother-in-law ), then
the police will have to ask them to return the next day after 6 A.M.
In case of senior citizens, the police inspector can depute a police officer to the residence and take a
statement from the senior citizen parent. It is not a crime if they refuse to come to the police station.
In matters of dowry death and offences that need arrest / preventive arrest/ custody, that is different.
But at the preliminary stage, senior citizen parents need not visit the police station.
IN FACT EVEN IF YOU ARE SERVED WITH AN ARREST WARRANT, OR IF YOUR ANTICIPATORY BAIL HAS
EXPIRED, YOU CAN SURRENDER YOURSELF AT THE COURT AND ON THE SPOT OBTAIN REGULAR
BAIL AND SHOW IT TO THE POLICE, complete the documentary formalities
AND YOU CAN MOVE AWAY RIGHT FROM THE COURT.
YOU DO NOT NEED TO VISIT THE POLICE STATION TO SURRENDER YOURSELF UPON EXPIRY OF THE
ANTICIPATORY BAIL.
OF COURSE, THERE WILL BE PAPER WORK ABOUT SURETY, …etc WHICH YOUR ADVOCATE HAS TO
HAVE READY.
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