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Zeeshan (Hidden)     15 June 2011

Duties and rights of husband and wife.

 

I reply this in a post. but I think to start a new thread of it.





According to today's DIL---











Right's of DIL----

Food- Hotel

Cloth wash- Dryclean / automatic washing machine

Cleaning the house -Housekeeper, maid

Utensil- Dishwasher

Cloth- readymade / tailor

 

Addons ---Car, Driver, TV. , Movie, shopping, holidays ( from what ?) , talking on mobile  )

 

Right's of Husband.------ 

Searching...............

Even google have no answer.

 

Duties of husband----

Provide Food, Cloth, Shelter to his family.

Look after Wife. Love his wife.

Look after parents. (wife's &  him's)

Work & earn money.

Pay washerman / plumber / maid / tailor / school fee etc.etc.

Pay for luxruy's of Family.

Fight with competitive & cruel world. & law also.

 

 Duties of wife --

Give birth & look after her childrens. This one left b'coz man can't do it. (god is  so cruel NA)

( tell more if you know,  )

( If demand of husband increases it lead to cruelty. )

Thumb up .............



 18 Replies

zimmerzapper (student)     15 June 2011

maintain for wife's lover

gaury..fight to win (Education)     15 June 2011

very funny zeeshan.U made me laugh.

 ha ha ha ...

syed (Branch incharge)     15 June 2011

really me too, am wondering what is real wife resposibilities other the,n ,gi,ving birth to child which is natural

gaury..fight to win (Education)     15 June 2011

nothing.Actualy they do the easiest  job in the world....making a child with own blood and flesh.!!!!!!!!.


(Guest)

very funny zeeshan .it seems that you are a good person.:P

sometimes husband also do house cleaning,drycleaning etc.;)usmen bhi maze hi maze hote he.wife look after parents,earn money via job.

Enjoy every work.Husband/Wife should remember this to live happily.It is called satisfaction.

Zeeshan (Hidden)     15 June 2011

Originally posted by :gaury
"

nothing.Actualy they do the easiest  job in the world....making a child with own blood and flesh.!!!!!!!!.

"



 

 

When you type of people didn't got a reply they start talking emotionally & start giving ill-logics. 

Due to these above said facts THE MOTHER is prayed . And given most respect. 

And also if this is in control of femenist or law or you, they also banned this & put it in the category of cruelty.

**Victim** (job)     15 June 2011

Zeeshan bhai i salute you what a good research..................

Roshni B.. (For justice and dignity)     16 June 2011

Originally posted by :Kushan Vyas
"


sometimes husband also do house cleaning,drycleaning etc.usmen bhi maze hi maze hote he.
"

 

 

lagta hai ye apni shaadi ke baad yahi sab karna chahta hai:P

 

 

arre karo karo.

enoy every work


(Guest)

@Roshni b and Zeeshan

Just kidding.:)

You said,"Right's of Husband.------ 

Searching...............

Even google have no answer."


Kya baat karte ho

ye rahe google ke answer:

https://maseeh1.tripod.com/advices7/id206.htm

https://www.themuslimwoman.com/herrole/husbandsrights.htm

 

Rights of the Husband Over the Wife under muslim law

Being head of the household
To be obeyed :)
Physical relations
Control over who enters the house
Wife leaves the house only with his permission :/
Housework and being served by his wife (two opinions)
To be shown gratitude for his efforts :P
She does not fast (voluntary) except with his permission
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Hindu Law: Marital Rights and Duties in an Indian Marriage

There are some circumstances when a couple refuse each other the right to enforce their conjugal rights. At that juncture, the aggrieved spouse can approach the court.

The following are some of the marital rights and duties that are binding on a Hindu married couple.

    Conjugal Rights: The chief consequence of marriage is procreation and this requires the husband and wife to enforce their rights and fulfill their conjugal duties.
    Restitution of Conjugal Rights: When either the husband or the wife refuses or withdraws from performing conjugal duties from the other, the aggrieved spouse may approach the court and petition for restitution of conjugal rights. Typically, the courts make every endeavor to counsel and create reconciliation between the spouses so that they can live together in harmony as a couple.



Hindu Law: Restitution of Conjugal Rights

When filing for restitution of conjugal rights, the petitioner (the one who is approaching the court for a remedy) must prove bona fide desire to resume marital life and fulfill the rights and duties of matrimonial life.

The courts will examine whether the following aspects are proved beyond reasonable doubt:

    Whether the respondent has withdrawn from the petitioner without reasonable excuse.
    Whether there is no legal ground as to why the decree should not be passed.

Suppose a Hindu wife states that she refuses to restore conjugal rights because the husband is married to another woman and living with her. The court will review whether this amounts to a reasonable excuse and whether it does become a legal ground not to enforce the decree for restitution of conjugal rights.

Arup (UNEMPLOYED)     16 June 2011

Right's of Husband.------ 

Searching...............

Even google have no answer.

 

---   but opposite is also there.

where wife searching husband, - unke band bazane ke liye...

Zeeshan (Hidden)     16 June 2011

Kushan Vyas

These are only religious , non-practical & only guidelines. There is no punishment if wife do not follow them. Or there is ???

Instead, if anyone force her to follow these duties he/she came in the definition of cruelty. 

Who follows religious rule now days ? everyone went to court. In muslims everyone knows that man has the power to give divorce. But very less knows about " prevention of muslim women from divorce". Hence it's not easy to give "talak".

 

What if wife didn't follow her duties ? "NOTHING". Even after RCR goes in favor of husband he or police or court connot force her in any manner. Maximum he get divorce after a long time.

 

And what if husband don't follows his duties ? DV / 125 / maintainance /498a .

Bus kahne ki der hai. Whole family put to jail.

Zeeshan (Hidden)     16 June 2011

 

Originally posted by :Roshni B..
" lagta hai ye apni shaadi ke baad yahi sab karna chahta hai



arre karo karo.



enjoy every work
"

 

That's the thought of todays human. Doing household work is a matter of shame. It's a shame when man do these at home but when he do this at his work / shop, it's no shame. Even female also thought of that as a matter of shame for man . They also laugh on men.

 Doing household work thought to be cheap and shameful act. Hence today's women also says ,"why do I do these works ?  I am no less than you (husband). I am educated "  Like household work is for uneducated person.

Women who are less capable of man (physically) & also in problem during her pregnancy & other time, thought they are equally capable of doing all those things a man can do. But actually she can't . And when really she do / tries those work she earn less. 

 

And men in there ego didn't do household work. Also, he was made to do hard work & look after female members. 

 

All this lead to a disturbance of social ethics & family breakdown.

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gaury..fight to win (Education)     16 June 2011

Originally posted by : Zeeshan
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Originally posted by :gaury


"

nothing.Actualy they do the easiest  job in the world....making a child with own blood and flesh.!!!!!!!!.

"






 
 
When you type of people didn't got a reply they start talking emotionally & start giving ill-logics

What made you to think it illogical and emotional??

 


Due to these above said facts THE MOTHER is prayed . And given most respect. 
And also if this is in control of femenist or law or you, they also banned this & put it in the category of cruelty.

Mother is prayed??Yes.own mother is prayed but own child's mother is changed with a new girl.

This is the right (self earned) RIGHT of a modern husband.

 

"
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gaury..fight to win (Education)     16 June 2011

 

"That's the thought of todays human. Doing household work is a matter of shame. It's a shame when man do these at home but when he do this at his work / shop, it's no shame. Even female also thought of that as a matter of shame for man . They also laugh on men.

 Doing household work thought to be cheap and shameful act. Hence today's women also says ,"why do I do these works ?  I am no less than you (husband). I am educated "  Like household work is for uneducated person.

Women who are less capable of man (physically) & also in problem during her pregnancy & other time, thought they are equally capable of doing all those things a man can do. But actually she can't . And when really she do / tries those work she earn less. 

 

And men in there ego didn't do household work. Also, he was made to do hard work & look after female members. 

 

All this lead to a disturbance of social ethics & family breakdown."

 

 

yes man and woman can never be equal in all aspects.Understanding between husband and wife is a must to run the family smoothly.I have seen many families where both are working.Husband cooks and at that time wife helps  the kids in studies.Husband lack in patience and create scene when kids can't follow his teaching at once.

It is what EGO should be kept away both should be tried to share equally everything once kids are born.


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