My brother got marreid three & half year before. From 6th months later of marrige his wife tried to starts blaiming on family memeber that we teach my brother against her, later on she bliamed that we have wrong relation in between me & my brother without any incidence which proves this. Every time her parents keep waarn about the hindu marrige law to my parents without listen the both parties. now just before 8 months she slaped my brother rather till the time my brother even never used abusive language to her from the marrige. Before 4 months they start living seprate from family along with 1.8 year old daughter. She carried all jewellery ornaments including mine & my mom without our knowledge . Now she & her family memeber starts pressureise my brother to own a flat. Recently without any major reason her father warrn my brother to put me , my elder brother & his wife to keep behind the bars who is even lived in other state. Moreover my brother knows that she still in touch with her ex- boyfriend but he has to keep his mouth shut.
All this is just becouse Our Hindi Marrige Act only. If we consider that boy 7 girl has equal rights in every critieria, then why in marrige which is a knot to tie the two family, why we gave preferance to girl. even when boy family proves the girl wrong still our law can not punish her & her family.
Being a woman, i felt that if the society is giving the girl equal chance to take education or to join the post according to her eligibility, or to be independent , if still a girl cannot stand on his feet just because of her lazyness, her parents mistake, lake of interest in studies whatever., then why the boy pay for this.
Marrige is not a deal of profit & loss, if by badluck because of any partner weakness, bad habit, different tempraments. marrige not workout then why this alimony & maintenamce made by the law.
If i consider my brother marrige we also spend as much money on this marrige as they spend.
we gifted his wife 3 times more gold then her praents gifted her or my parents
One function they done as like we also through reception
They made garments we also .
Moreover we agreed to come to their hometown for marrige just for their convenience, for this we hired 1Ac bus, 3 cars for 3 days from Delhi to jullandhar.
Yes, child is a part on which we all have to think seriously. Future of a child should not be compromising. Child shoul live with the person who can give the child better education & future.
You poeple must be think that my brother is in a part that is why i am blaimg our law, but not i am a divorced lady at the time of dicision i even never ask for a single penny from my in laws this is a recorded statement which i can prove. No matter who is mistaken who is wrong. Matters that both parties go through by very hard time equaly in every criteria
