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Joseph Wilfred (Voluntarily Retired from Indian Overseas Bank)     07 December 2012

Husband wants divorce under special marriage act for crualty

I WAS MARRIED ON 7TH JUNE 1989 AT SACRED HEART CHURCH, MADRAS . MY DATE OF BIRTH WAS 23/11/1954. MY WIFE GAVE HER DATE OF BIRTH AS 23/07/1957 . HER BAPTISM CERTIFICATE STATES THAT SHE WAS BORN ON THAT DAY AT TANJORE IN TAMIL NADU AND HER PARENTS WERE LIVING AT KORATTUR IN MADRAS .THIS BAPTISM CERTIFICATE WAS SPONSORED BY HER BROTHER LIVING AT KORATTUR.THIS IS MENTIONED IN THE CERTIFICATE. BUT ACTUALLY SHE WAS BORN ON 23/10/2012 AT QUILON IN KERALA ,SCHOOLING IN QUILON AND PRE DEGREE IN QUILON , KERALA . HER FATHER WAS WORKING IN THE RAILWAYS AT MADURAI DIVISION AND STAY PUT AT QUILON . TWO YEARS AFTER HER PRE DEGREE SHE JOINED THE RAILWAYS IN 1975 AT MADURAI .AFTER THAT HER FAMILY SHIFTED TO MADURAI AND HER FATHER WAS WORKING AS DRIVER NOW CALLED LOCO PILOT AND THE BASE WAS AT MADURAI . HER FATHER DIED IN 1988. HER MOTHER ( LATE ) , HER MADRAS BROTHER AND HER ELDER AND YOUNGER SISTERS WERE STAYING AT MADURAI. HER ELDER SISTER WAS MARRIED. AFTER HER FATHER'S DEATH ONLY THEY ARRANGED THIS MARRIAGE AT MADRAS . MY DAUGHTER WAS BORN IN THE 7TH MONTH ITSELF AND THEREFORE I VOLUNTARILY AGREED TO SPEND EVERYTHING AMOUNTING TO RS.20,000/- AND SAVED THE LIFE OF MY WIFE AND MY DAUGHTER BECAUSE THEIR FAMILY MEMBERS WANTED TO TAKE MY WIFE TO MADURAI FOR DELIVERY IN WHICH CASE IT IS DIFFICULT TO SAY WHAT WOULD HAVE HAPPENED.BUT THEIR FAMILY MEMBERS WERE ALWAYS AN OBSTACLE TO ME ON ALL MY DECISIONS .THEY WILL NEITHEIR DO IT OR ALLOW ME TO DO IT . WE WERE LIVING IN A SEPARATE HOUSE ONLY NEAR MY MOTHER'S ( LATE ) HOUSE. MY WIFE'S MOTHER WAS FROM KERALA AND FATHER FROM TANJORE . BUT THEY TOLD US THAT THEY ARE FROM TANJORE .I WAS WORKING IN A NATIONALIZED BANK AT MADRAS AND WAS THE GENERAL SECRETARY OF THE WORKMEN UNION .IN ADDITION TO THIS AT THE ALL INDIA FEDERATION OF 28 NATIONALIZED BANKS I WAS ONE OF THE NATIONAL EXECUTIVE COMMITTEE MEMBERS . AT TAMIL NADU LEVEL I WAS THE TREASURER FOR THE FEDERATION OF 28 NATIONALIZED BANKS. THEIR INNER AIM WAS TO TAKE ME TO MADURAI WHERE MY WIFE WAS WORKING IN THE RAILWAYS WHICH IS IMPOSSIBLE FOR ME .FOR THE FIRST TIME IN MY LIFE I WAS ADMITTED TO A HOSPITAL WITH BOWEL BREATHING AND HIGH FEVER. THE HEART SPECIALIST WHO EXAMINED ME HAD TOLD ME THAT MY BODY HAD GIVEN A WARNING TO ME AND I MUST BE CAREFUL. AFTER 2 DAYS I WANTED DISCHARGE FROM THAT HOSPITAL BECAUSE I WANTED TO GET TREATMENT AT A HIGH CLASS HOSPITAL SINCE I WAS WORKING . BUT AFTER MY DISCHARGE MY WIFE DESERTED ME AND TOOK MY DAUGHTER WITH HER .AFTER ONE OR TWO DAYS HER FATHER'S TWO BROTHERS ( LATE ) CAME TO MY MOTHER'S HOUSE WHERE I WAS STAYING AND WANTED MY WIFE'S BELONGININGS. I GAVE THE KEYS OF MY HOUSE AND THEY TOOK ALMOST ALL THE THINGS EXCEPT THE GAS WHICH WAS IN MY NAME FROM 1984 AND MY DRESSESS IN A TEMPO VAN . I LOVED MY WIFE AND MY DAUGHTER SO MUCH THAT I BECAME VERY SICK WITH DEPRESSION .I CONSULTED MANY FAMOUS SPECIALISTS AND FINALLY I CAME TO MY BANKS HOSPITAL . THE MEDICAL DIRECTOR WHO IS MY BANK'S DOCTOR REFERRED ME TO THE NEURO PSYCHIATRIST ( M.B.B.S.,M.D. ) IN THE SAME HOSPITAL AND HE DIAGONISED ME AS A PATIENT WITH CHRONIC DEPRESSION .THIS WAS IN MAY 1994. SINCE I WAS SICK I HAD TO TAKE LEAVE ON LOSS OF PAY PRODUCING MEDICAL CERTIFICATE . THE NEURO PSYCHIATRIST PRESCRIBED 3 MEDICINES AND MY FEVER AND COLD DECREASED BUT I WAS UNABLE TO GO TO OFFICE . I WAS STAYING IN MY MUM'S HOUSE ONLY BECAUSE MY WIFE HAD DESERTED ME .FROM MAY TO OCTOBER 1994 I WAS ON LEAVE ON LOSS OF PAY PRODUCING MC. THE SPECIALIST ADVISED ME FOR A CHANGE OF PLACE AND THEREFORE I LEFT FOR DELHI AND STAYED THERE .TILL THE 1ST WEEK OF MAY I WAS THERE AND INFORMED MY OFFICE ALSO THAT I WAS IN DELHI PRODUCING MEDICAL CERTIFICATE FOR 4 MONTS LEAVE TILL THE END OF APRIL 1995. THERE IS A CLAUSE IN OUR BANKS BIPARTITE SETTLEMENT OF MAY 1985 THAT IF ANY ONE TAKES LEAVE WITHOUT PRODUCING LEAVE LETTER, THEY CAN BE TREATED AS VOLUNTARY CESSATION OF EMPLOYMENT WITHOUT EVEN PENSION BY ISSUING A NOTICE GIVING 30 DAYS TIME TO REPORT FOR DUTY . BUT THERE IS ALSO A CLARIFICATION FROM INDIAN BANKS ASSOCIATION BOMBAY DATED AUGUST 1985 THAT IF THE BANK HAD RECEIVED EVEN A SINGLE LEAVE LETTER FROM SUCH EMPLOYEE THEY SHOULD NOT BE TREATED UNDER THIS CLAUSE BUT SHOULD BE TREATED AS PER THE USUAL PROCEDURES . I WAS IN MADRAS ONLY WHEN I RECEIVED THIS NOTICE .I REPLIED TO THIS NOTICE WITHIN THE STIPULATED TIME OF 30 DAYS AND REQUESTING THE BANK TO PUT ME BEFORE A MEDICAL BOARD TO PROVE MY BONAFIDES AND ALSO TO POST ME FOR ONE YEAR IN A BRANCH NEARER TO MY HOUSE . THE NOTICE WAS RECEIVED BY THE BANK BEFORE EXPIRY OF THE 30 DAY PERIOD THAT IS ON 14/06/1995. BUT THE BANK CHOSE TO RETIRE ME BY THEIR LETTER DATED 20/06/1995 POSTED ON 24/06/1995 RETIRING ME WITH EFFECT FROM 16/06/1995. I FILED A CASE IN THE MADRAS HIGH COURT AND IT WAS ADMITTED AND THE FINAL WAS OVER IN APRIL 1997. BUT IN 1996 MY SENIOR COUNSEL DIED . MY CASE WAS POSTED FOR ORDERS IN APRIL 1997 BUT IT WAS AGAIN LISTED FOR HEARING IN ANOTHER 10 DAYS OR MORE AND MY CASE WAS DISMISSED ON 29/04/1997 ON THE GROUND THAT I DID NOT FOLLOW THE PROCEDURES LIKE CONCILLIATION AND THERE AFTER THE CENTRAL GOVERNMENT INDUSTRIAL TRIBUNAL. ETC. MY APPEAL WAS DISMISSED ON THE SAME GROUND IN JULY 1997 . THERE AFTER MY BARRISTER AT LAW APPEARED FOR ME IN THE SUPREME COURT OF INDIA .THERE ALSO MY CASE WAS DISMISSED IN NOVEMBER/DECEMBER 1997. FOR ALL THIS MY WIFE DID NOT SPEND EVEN A PIE AND MOST OF THE DAYS I WAS IN MY MOTHER'S HOUSE AND MY WIFE STAYED WITH HER MOTHER , YOUNGER SISTER AND MY ONLY DAUGHTER 30 KMS FROM MY PLACE . IN 1998 I CAME THROUGH CONCILLIATION AND IN 1999 MY CASE WAS REFERRED TO THE TRIBUNAL AT MADRAS . THERE THE BANK DRAGGED THE CASE TILL 2002 AND MY ALL INDIA GENERAL SECRETARY OF MY FEDERATION WHO OPTED VOLUNTARY RETIREMENT IN 2000 FROM MADRAS BASED BANK CONDUCTED MY CASE AND MARKED 65 DOCUMENTS INCLUDING THE ATTENEDANCE REGISTER AND THE CROSS EXAMINATION OF TWO OF THE BANK'S REPRESENTATIVE RUNNING TO 25 PAGES .MY WIFE DID NOT SPEND EVEN A PIE FOR THIS BUT SHE WITHDREW 19,000/- FROM HER PF IN MAY 1995 AND GAVE TO HIS MOTHER. IN 1999 SHE BID A ONE LAC CHIT FOR 58,000/- AND GAVE TO HIS YOUNGER SISTER WHO BECAME BANKRUPT AFTER HER MARRIAGE .ALL THIS WAS WITHOUT MY KNOWLEDGE AND I DID NOT BOTHER ABOUT THIS TILL DATE BECAUSE GOD IS THERE TO TAKE CARE OF EVERYTHING . HER YOUNGER SISTER AND HER HUSBAND WHO HAILS FROM KERALA FLED TO KERALA WITH MY WIFE'S MOTHER. THE ENTIRE CHIT OF RS 2500x40=1,00,000/- WAS PAID BY MY WIFE THROUGH FOREIGN BANK LOANS AND CREDIT CARDS AND THE TOTAL AMOUNT PAID WAS RS.80,000/-. HER SALARY WAS LESS MORE OR LESS THAN RS.10,000/-. MY WIFE BECAME BANKRUPT IN 2004 AND WAS UNABLE TO PAY THE BANK LOANS . I SOLD MY LAND IN MADRAS AND PAID HER ENTIRE DEBTS IN 2005. IN 2005 I FILED MY APPEAL IN THE MADRAS HIGH COURT AND IT WAS ADMITTED IN 2005 AND FINAL HEARING FIXED FOR JUNE 2006. BUT IN MAY /JUNE 2006 THE SENIOR COUNSEL I WAS TO ENGAGE FOR THE FINAL HEARING BECAME A JUDGE . IN THE MEANTIME ON 09/01/2005 I WAS ADMITTED IN THE HOSPITAL WITH CONVULSIONS /CONCUSSIONS/SEIZURE . I WAS DISCHARGED ON 13/01/2005 AND AGAIN ADMITTED WITH THE SAME PROBLEM IN MARCH 2005. SINCE MY MONEY WAS THERE I WAS SAVED FROM THE ATTACK .AFTER THAT I CONSULTED THE NEURO SURGEON AT APOLLO HOSPITALS AND HE REFERRED ME TO GET THE OPINION OF A NEURO PSYCHOLOGIST. SHE GAVE HER DETAILED OIPINION AND IN THAT SHE HAD REFERRED THE FAMILY PROBLEMS IN 1993 AND MY FREQUENT FEVER AND COLD AFTER THAT AND ALSO MY LOSS OF MY PERMANENT JOB.MY I.Q.WAS 95 PLUS OR MINUS 5. MY MEMORY " INTACT ". MY RECALL OF MEMORY " SPONTANEOUS ". THE FIRST NEURO SURGEON WHO TREATED ME WAS A SPECIALIST IN MICRO NEURO SURGERY , MICRO SPINE SURGERY , AND STEREO TACTIC SURGERY. TILL THIS DAY I AM UNDER HIS MEDICINES ONLY .MY HEART RATE ( STRESS TEST ) WAS 85 % AT 172 BEATS PER MINUTE WHICH IS VERY GOOD . MY " MRI BRAIN " WAS NORMAL. MY " MRI CERVICAL SPINE REVEALED PROTRUSIONS AT 5 LEVELS AND MY SPINAL CORD HAD COMPROMISED VERY TACTFULLY. THERE WAS ALSO SPONDILITIES PROBLEMS . I ALSO HAD TO UNDERGO           " EEG VIDEOMETRY PROLONGED- 3 HOURS ". IT REVEALED THAT                        " REM SLEEP " WAS ABSENT .( RAPID EYEBALL MOVEMRNT ). MY WIFE DID NOT BOTHER ABOUT MY FINAL HEARING AND REFUSED TO SPEND MONEY FOR THAT ALTHOUGH SHE WAS WORKING .HER SALARY INCREASED MANY FOLD IN 2008 AFTER IMPLEMENTATION OF VI PAY COMMISSION RECOMMENDATIONS .HER LAST SALARY DRAWN WAS RS. 49,000/- PER MONTH AND SHE RETIRED ON 31ST OCTOBER 2012 . ALTHOUGH SHE GOT RUPEES FOURTEEN LACS AS RETIREMENT BENEFITS AND RS. 16,000/- AS MONTHLY PENSION AFTER COMMUTATION SHE DESERTED ME NOW WITHOUT SPENDING MONEY FOR MY CASE . NOW I AM ALONE IN MY HOUSE AND MY BROTHER AND SISTER RESIDING NEARBY ARE PROVIDING FOOD TO ME . THIS IS NOT THE FIRST TIME SHE IS DESERTING ME , BUT SHE DESERTED ME IN MAY AND JUNE 2011 AND MAY TO AUGUST 2009 AND ALSO IN 1993 AS DETAILED ABOVE. AFTER DESERTING ME ON THE MIDNIGHT OF 1ST/2ND MAY 2009  MY WIFE AND MY DAUGHTER ALONG WITH THEIR ELDER BROTHER           ( RETD ) GAVE A POLICE COMPLAINT ON 03/05/2009 IN THE NEARBY ALL WOMEN POLICE STATION THAT I WAS HARASSING THEM FOR 5 YEARS AND THEY HAD TAKEN SHELTER AT HER ELDER BROTHER'S HOUSE . BUT THEY WERE STAYING AT THEIR MOTHER'S ELDER SISTER'S DAUGHTER'S YOUNGEST SON'S HOUSE WHO IS MARRIED ABOUT 4 KMS FROM MY HOUSE . THAT LADY ( MY WIFE'S MOTHER'S ELDER SISTER'S DAUGHTER  IS ALSO RESIDING THERE ONLY .  NOT ONLY THAT FROM 9TH MAY 2011 ( WHEN MY WIFE AND DAUGHTER DESERTED ME AFTER GIVING A POLICE COMPLAINT AT THE MEN'S POLICE STATION HERE AND THE POLICE CAME TO MY HOUSE AND HARASSED ME ) TILL 1ST DECEMBER 2012 MY WIFE AND MY DAUGHTER HAD GIVEN COMPLAINT TO POLICE CONTROL ROOM 100 IN OCEMBER 2011 , FIRST WEEK OF NOVEMBER 2011 , 21/05/2012 , 09/08/2012, 10/08/2012 . EVERY TIME THE POLICE WILL COME AND HARASS ME AND CALL ME THE STATION AND I WILL NOT GO BECAUSE THEY DON'T HAVE JURISDICTION TO ENTERTAIN FAMILY DISPUTES . EVEN THE WOMEN POLICE STATION CAN ONLY COUNSEL US AND IF THEY FIND ANY INJURY ON MY WIFE 'S OR MY DAUHGTER'S BODY THEY SHOULD SEND THEM TO THE GOVERNMENT HOSPITAL AND AFTER OBTAINING A MEDICAL CERTIFICATE THEY CAN FILE AN FIR AND ARREST ME AND I CAN COME OUT ON BAIL . EVERY TIME THEY WILL COME TO MY HOUSE AND CALL ME TO THE POLICE STATION FOR INVESTIGATION . WHAT IS THERE TO INVESTIGATE IN THIS MATTER . HAVE I COMMITTED ANY FRAUD OR HAVE I COMMITTED ANY MURDER OR HAVE I COMMITTED ANY OFFENCE PUNISHABLE UNDER I.P.C. OR Cr.P.C TO INVESTIGATE . ON THE MORNING OF 09/08/2012 I HAVE LEFT FOR MY SISTER'S HOUSE NEARBY . I ASKED MY SISTER TO LOCK THE DOOR AND GO TO OFFICE AS I WANTED TO SLEEP . IN THE AFTERNOON MY WIFE AND MY DAUGHTER HAD GIVEN COMPLAINT TO 100 AND THEY POLICE SUB INSPECTOR AND ANOTHER CONSTABLE HAD COME TO MY SISTER'S HOUSE AND SCALED THE MAIN GATE AND SEEING THE DOOR LOCKED HAD GONE UPSTAIRS WHERE MY ANOTHER SISTER WAS THERE ( SINCE SHE WAS NOT WELL , SHE WAS THERE ) AND DEMANDED THE KEYS OF THE GROUND FLOOR HOUSE AND OPENED THE HOUSE AND CAME TO MY ROOM WHERE I WAS SLEEPING AND ASKED ME TO ACCOMPANY THEM TO THE POLICE STATION AS THEY WANTED TO INVESTIGATE ME . I REFUSED AND ASKED THEM TO LEAVE MY HOUSE .WHILE GOING OUT THEY KEPT THE MAIN DOOR OPEN AND THE LOCK IN THE LOCKED POSITION . I CANNOT CLOSE THE DOOR BECAUSE THEY HAVE TAKEN THE KEYS OF THE HOUSE .MY SISTER IN THE FIRST FLOOR IN A SHOCK HAD BROUGHT ONLY THE KEYS OF THE GROUND FLOOR AND SHE NEITHER TOOK HER MOBILE NOR THE MAIN DOOR KEYS OF THE ATOMATIC LOCK OR THE NEXT GRILL DOOR KEYS . SO SHE WAS CAUGHT BETWEEN THE MAIN DOOR AND THE GRILL DOOR IN THE VERANDAH.I WAS IN THE GROUND FLOOR AND I DID NOT KNOW THIS .AFTER SOME TIME I CAME TO KNOW THAT THE SUB INSPECTOR HAD TAKEN THE KEYS OF THE GROUND FLOOR HOUSE .I COMPLAINED TO 100 AND TO THE POLICE STATION TO RETURN THE KEYS OF THE GROUND FLOOR HIOUSE. THE CONTROL ROOM PERSONNEL TOLD ME THAT THE POLICE HAD COME THERE. AFTER A WHILE WHEN I WENT OUT I SAW A BIG CROWD NEAR THAT HOUSE AND LOOKING UPSTAIRS. THEN ONLY I WENT THAT SIDE AND SAW THAT SUB INSPECTOR AND THE CONSTABLE TRYING TO BREAK THE GRILL DOOR LOCK OF MY SISTER'S HOUSE . TILL DATE THE KEYS OF THE GROUND FLOOR HOUSE HAD NOT BEEN RETURNED . I COULD NOT CLOSE THE MAIN DOOR AND SO I TIED IT WITH A ROPE. MY SISTER AND HER TWO DAUGHTERS DECIDED TO STAY IN MY BROTHER'S HOUSE BUT BOTH CAME THERE AT 09.00 P.M. AND GAVE ME ANOTHER SET OF KEYS .ON 10/08/2012 MY WIFE AND MY DAUGHTER HAD GONE TO THE ALL WOMEN POLICE STATION HERE AND GIVEN THE SAME COMPLAINT THAT THEY GAVE TO 100 ON 09/08/2012. THAT LADY SUB INSPECTOR CALLED ME AND TOLD ME THAT MY WIFE AND DAUGHTER WANTED TO DESERT ME AND GO AND THEY WANTED THEIR THINGS . I TOLD THE SUB INSPECTOR THAT THEY ARE FREE TO TAKE ANYTHING THEY WANTED FROM MY HOUSE AND SHE ALSO CALLED ME TO THE POLICE STATION  . BUT I TOLD HER THAT I HAVE TAKEN MORE OF MY NEURO MEDICINES BECAUSE OF THE STRESS AND I SHOULD NOT GET ANOTHER ATTACK OF SEIZURE AND I CAN COME THERE ONLY AFTER A WEEK .I STAYED IN MY GROUND FLOOR SISTER'S HOUSE TILL 20/08/2012. BUT TILL 20/08/2012 MY WIFE AND DAUGHTER DID NOT LEAVE MY HOUSE . HOW LONG I CAN STAY IN MY SISTER'S HOUSE .SO I RETURNED TO MY HOUSE IN 20/08/2012 . BOTH MY WIFE AND MY DAUGHTER WERE SHOUTING AT ME USING VULGER WORDS WHY I CAME BACK AND TO PROVOKE ME . IN MY HOUSE EVERYTHING WAS PACKED AND READY . BUT THEY DID NOT LEAVE TILL 01/12/2012. IN MY HOUSE I WILL TAKE ONLY ONE MEAL IN EVERY 2 OR 3 DAYS BUT I WILL TAKE MY MEDICINES AND KEEP SLEEPING MOST OF THE TIME TO AVOID ANY UNPLEASANT HAPPENNINGS. AGAIN IN SEPTEMBER 2012 HIT ME AND PUSHED ME OUT THROUGH THE BACK DOOR . MY SISTER SAW THIS FROM HER FIRST FLOOR HOUSE AND SCOLDED MY DAUGHTER. MY DAUHGTER CALLED MY WIFE FROM HER OFFICE AT PARK TOWN AND SHE RUSHED HERE IN AN AUTO AND ON LANDING HERE SHOUTED FROM THE STREET USING VULGER WORDS AND CALLED HER TO COME DOWN . ON COMING INSIDE MY HOUSE SHE WAS SHOUTING AT ME USING VULGER WORDS . I TOOK MORE MEDICINES AND SLEPT WITHOUT TAKING ANY FOOD. THE NEXT DAY MY SISTER'S LODGED A POLICE COMPLAINT ON MY WIFE . EVERY TIME NEW SUB INSPECTOR WILL COME . HE CALLED MY WIFE TO THE POLICE STATION .THERE MY WIFE GAVE A WRITTEN APOLOGY . THIS WAS ONLY FIVE MINUTES . ANOTHER 30 MINUTES INSPECTOR OF POLICE ADVISED MY WIFE TO ASSAULT ME AND THROW ME OUT AND GAVE HIS MOBILE NUMBER AND INFORM HIM .HE WILL SEND THE SWEEPER OF THE STATION AND DRAG ME TO THE POLICE STATION AND THERE THEY WILL HIT ME WITH THEIR BOOTS AND BOOK ME UNDER NON BAILABLE SECTION . MY WELL WISHERS ARE ALSO IN THAT POLICE STATION ITSELF AND MORE SO PRESS REPORTERS WILL ALSO VISIT THE POLICE STATIONS FOR GATHERING NEWS. I AM HOLDING THE POST OF ASSISTANT GENERAL SECRETARY CUM ALL INDIA CORRESPONDENT OF TAMIL MEDIA AND JOURNALISTS WELFARE ASSOCIATION .IN ADDITION TO THAT I WRITE MY COMMENTS IN 3000 CHARACTERS TO THE NEWS ITEMS I RECEIVE FROM TIMES OF INDIA AND MANY HAD BEEN PUBLISHED FOR WHICH I WILL RECEIVE MAIL . IN TIMES OF INDIA I HAVE CROSSED THE SILVER MEMBER BADGE AT 250 POINTS AND NOW I AM HEADING FOR GOLD MEMBER WITH 689 POINTS . I WRITE SURVEY TO CNN-IBN ALSO . AGAIN IN SEPTEMBER I LEFT MY HOUSE BECAUSE OF THE INSTRUCTIONS GIVEN TO MY WIFE BY THE INSPECTOR OF POLICE OF THE LOCAL POLICE STATION ON THE ADVISE OF MY WELL WISHERS NOT BELONGING TO MY FAMILY. I STAYED IN MY FIRST FLOOR SISTER'S HOUSE TILL 09/10/2012 . BUT THESE 2 IN MY HOUSE LIVED HAPPILY . WHEN I RETURNED ON 09/10/2012 I FOUND MANY OF THE PACKED ITEMS MISSING . THE MEDAVAKKAM PERSON IN WHICH MY WIFE AND MY DAUGHTER STAYED IN MAY 2009 WILL DO ALL THESE THINGS AND MY WIFE'S BROTHER, ELDER SISTER AT MADURAI AND THE YOUNGER SISTER AT KERALA WILL SUPPORT HIM AND ADVICE HIM TO DO SUCH THINGS . ON 31/10/2012 MY WIFE RETIRED FROM THE SOUTHERN RAILWAYS AND BY 10/11/2012 SHE GOT ABOUT RUPEES TWELVE LACS . BUT THEY WERE TORMENTING ME . THEY DID NOT LEAVE THE HOUSE ON THE PRETEXT THAT THEY COULD NOT GET A GOOD HOUSE WITHIN 3 TO 4 KMS OF MY HOUSE . ON 01/12/2012 THEY TOLD ME THAT THEY ARE GOING TO DESERT ME PERMANENTLY AND FOR EVER . BEFORE MY MUMS DEATH IN JULY 2008 SHE GAVE MY WIFE A NEW MICRO WAVE OVEN AND MY WIFE SPOILED IT AND IT IS NOT WORKING FOR 2 YEARS BUT SHE NEVER BOTHERED TO REPAIR THAT . DURING THE SAME PERIOD SHE BOUGHT A NEW WASHING MACHINE AND GAVE TO ME AND MY WIFE SPOILED IT AND IT IS NOT WORKING FOR MORE THAN A YEAR . SHE ALSO GAVE ANEW ELECTRIC COOKER AND THAT IS WORKING TILL OCTOBER 2012. AFTER HER DEATH IN JULY 2008 MY MUMS NEW FRIDGE WAS GIVEN TO ME . WHEN MY MUM WAS ALIVE SHE GAVE SOME JEWELS ALSO AND ALL HAD VANISHED NOW. THEY TOLD ME THAT THEY WILL LEAVE THAT FRIDGE . BUT ON 01/12/2012 WHEN I WOKE UP AND WENT TO DRINK CHILL WATER EVERYTHING WAS OUTSIDE . WHEN I WANTED IT THEY PUSHED ME DOWN . THEY CALLED THE LOCAL POLICE . ONE DRIVER CONSTABLE ONE CONSTABLE AND ONE NEW SUB INSPECTOR CAME . THEY PULLED ME TO THE POLICE STATION FROM OUR DINING ROOM . THEY ASSAULTED ME . WHEN THEY PULLED ME I FELL FLAT ON THE GROUND . THEY TRIED TO PULL ME BUT I DID NOT GET UP . THEN THEY WENT OUT . I WENT TO MY UPSTAIR ROOM . WHEN I CAME DOWN AT AROUND 01.00 P.M. TO SEE THE POSITION , I FOUND MY MUSIC SYSTEM STAND READY TO GO OUT . I TOOK IT UPSTAIRS . MY WIFE IMMEDIATELY TORE MY DAUGHTER'S NIGHTIES AND THEY WERE SHOUTING THAT I HAD DONE THAT . THEY CHANGED THE DRESS AND WENT AGAIN TO THE LOCAL POLICE STATION TAKING MY HOUSE'S VERANDAH GRILL DOOR LOCK AND KEY AND THE MAIN WOODEN DOOR KEYS WITH THEM . I IMMEDIATELY COMPLAINED TO 100 THAT MY LIFE IS IN DANGER BECAUSE OF THE LOCAL POLICE STATION . WHEN I CAME DOWN ONLY FOR THE 2ND TIME AFTER THE NIGHTY PROBLEM I FOUND EVERYTHING STATED ABOVE . IMMEDIATELY I WENT UPSTAIR AND REMOVED ANOTHER GRILL DOOR LOCK AND CAME DOWN AND LOCKED THE FRONT GRILL DOOR AND WENT TO MY UPSTAIR . MY WIFE AND MY DAUGHTER WERE SHOUTING FROM THE STREET THAT THE POLICE WILL COME, DRAG ME OUT AND THRASH ME ON THE STREET . AFTER SOME TIME I CAME DOWN AND SAW A POLICE VAN AND THE DRIVER WHO CAME IN THE MORNING AND ASSAULTED ME . THAT DRIVER TOOK A LATHI FROM THE VAN AND WAS COMING. THAT SUB INSPECTOR STOPPED HIM . I CALLED THAT SUB INSPECTOR AND OPENED THE GRILL DOOR AND SHOWED THE PACKED THINGS AND TOLD HIM TO TAKE WHATEVER THEY WANT .WHILE MY WIFE WAS ENTERING INSIDE THAT SUB INSPECTOR GAVE HIS MOBILE TO MY WIFE AND SAID THAT THE INSPECTOR WANTS TO SPEAK TO HER .I CAN HEAR THAT THE INSPECTOR WAS TELLING MY WIFE TO GO WITHOUT THINGS AND HE WILL ARRANGE TO BRING EVERYTHING FROM MY HOUSE . I AGAIN ASKED THE SUB INSPECTOR TO TAKE WHATEVER THEY WANTED EXCEPT MY FRIDGE MY GAS STOVE AND THE FULL GAS CYLINDER IN MY NAME WHICH IS IN THE VERANDAH AND THE OTHER ONE CONNECTED TO THE STOVE . NOW EVERYTHING HAD GONE INCLUDING THE TV AND 3 SEATER SOFA . THEY REMOVED THE COMPUTER CONNECTIONS BUT I TOLD THE SUB INSPECTOR TO LEAVE THAT . I AM ENDING MY MESSAGE . THERE MAY BE SOME OMMISSIONS AND CORRECTIONS AND A LOT LOT MORE ABOUT MANY MATTERS . I FORGOT TO WRITE THAT I HAD ANOTHER ATTACK OF SEIZURE ON 01/05/2008 AND I WAS ADMITTED FROM 01/05/2008 TO 06/05/2008 . MY SEIZURE WAS NOT A DISEASE BUT WHEN THE SRESS CROSSES A LIMIT THE ELECTRICAL ACTIVITY IN A PARTICULAR PART OF MY BRAIN GOES BEYOND A LIMIT AND JUST AS THE FUSE GOES OFF SEIZURE OCCURS . THIS IS HUMAN CHEMISTRY . SEIZURE MAY LEAD TO HEART ATTACK , COMA , PARALYTIC ATTACK AND DEATH . MY WIFE , MY DAUGHTER, AND THE LOCAL POLICE PERSONNEL ARE ADDING FUEL TO THE FIRE AND THAT BECOMES A NATURAL DEATH . SO I HAVE DECIDED TO GO IN FOR A DISSOLUTION OF MY MARRIAGE TO SAVE MY LIFE . I WILL NEVER MARRY ANYBODY EVEN IF THEY OFFER ME A CRORE . I WAS BORN AS BACHELOR AND I WANT TO DIE AS A BACHELOR .- JOSEPH WILFRED - 07/12/2012 AT 02.04 HRS      



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