Originally posted by :Adv. Chandu 09868332610
In one of your postings you classified all the women in four categories. If you put a woman in any one of those categories, she will be defamed and insulted. You cannot put your mother in any one of those categories. Neither am I. You cannot put your sister or daughter in any one of those categories. Neither am I. None of the members, either male or female cannot put any of their female relatives, mothers, sisters, daughters put in any of these categories. It may be shonee kapoor, rohit shukla, rajiv lodha, galsober, victim, ramani, alok, princess, roshni, goodgirlbombay etc. any one who is visiting this site cannot put any of their female relatives, in one of those categories, you prescribed for women. You are abusing the entire female hood without shame and shy.
I am replying to 4 categories which you pointed (probably) reading below link
Where I said under
What do women want is a 51 Rs. To a $ Femi –Nazi substance interpretation and here I place them on record for clarity the next time someone else ask the same
1. Most women want babies.
2. Most women want someone else to pay for THEIR babies so they can have the maximum amount of time with them.
3. Most women want babies and monies.
4. The woman does not want you, she wants your sperm and your money.
and you asked can I put females in my family into any of the above categories then here is what I have to say for females in my joint family..........
“For - Most women want babies” - My grandmother whom I never saw has 6 babies including my father. Had she not wanted babies she would not have given me 3 aunts and two uncles n my father living in joint family to call relatives. During Independence India’s population was 114 million and my grandmother lived to see India’s Independence and till date we are in touch with first generation friends of hers who are still more or less living in joint families and on an average I noticed they all have 3 plus babies born in those times still living as retired senior citizens. Maybe you should ask these females why they had 3 + babies if there females in those times in families did not wanted babies. They were not raped to have babies BTW nor today most women are raped to have babies.
Readers may recall their grandmother generation if their grandmothers had on an average 3 + babies or not – per se national average.
Maybe now you can tell how this para 1 statement insults or defames a Indian women or say in Indian context when today we the third generation persons population figure has crossed 1.3 billion ! Somebody down generation line has produced babies and if I say correctly then God has given most women powers to produce babies so what is so defaming / insulting to most women if her motherhood is praised ! You mean to say most women do not want babies and the moment one tells women that she wanted babsies she feels insulted – right that is why I also mentioned $ Femi – Nazi substance interpretation abv. because Feminists loves abortion more than producing babies and I knew someone is going to play emotions - sentiments cards which you and @ Ruhi exactly did :-) .
“For - Most women want someone else to pay for THEIR babies so they can have the maximum amount of time with them.” – I spent if I recall correctly nearly my first 11 years company of my grandfather (widow) seeing my 3 aunts and 2 uncles n my father in a joint family. My know it was my grandfather who paid for hospitalization / post delivery / growing up expenses to my grandmother for my 3 aunts / 2 uncles plus for my father best interest and welfare till they all got married respectively so on so forth. My grandmother did look after my 3 aunts / 2 uncles n my father well as I can see today they all are quite healthy (guee khilaya tha meri dadi ney na ki dalda) well socially / financially / educated / performing their duties to today's third generation cousins of mine etc. etc. Had my grandmother not received financial help from my grandfather in those days at delivery and so on phase there would have been infant mortality in my family and today I would not have received love and affection of my aunts / uncles / cousins.
Readers may recall their grandfather if he paid for delivery and post expenses till he lived his life for your uncles and aunts including your father or not?.
Maybe now you can tell how this para 2 statement insults or defames most of the women or say in Indian context when right from my grandmother’s times to my mother times these two women in my life wanted my grandfather / father respectively to pay expenses for bringing up these children so that they need not have to go out to work and thus have maximum time with my todays aunts – uncles and us respectively.
“For - Most women want babies and monies.” – My mother wanted us that is me and my sister and it is not that she ever told us or relatives in family that she hated making us and to give us her maternal care she knew my father would provide financial support and my father exactly did that and thus I am here to rebut you point blank.
Readers may ask their mother if she wanted you and your siblings (if any) and was your father expected to pay for her delivery expenses and post expenses for you and your siblings to reach a stage today to read this which you are finding so offensive?.
Maybe now you can tell how this para 3 statement insults or defames most of the women or say in Indian context when my mother loved bringing me and my sister to this tiny planet and my father worked hard to give my mother all the comforts she needed to bring us up so that she need not have to go out to work.
“For - The woman does not want you, she wants your sperm and your money” – If you want me to make a reply putting my grandmother / mother / wife / sister or daughter (she is minor) respectively in exact that order into this para 4 then I say that my grandmother / mother / sister cannot be put into this para by my own self because it was / is not the case as per above explanation para 1 till 3 which I am seeing firsthand and I am 37 years old and many of you who are in this age group most of your grandparents are still alive and so are your parents so donot play hide-seek with words. Concerning my wife she is a earning member of this thrid generation family and yes she had my sperm to produce our daughter and yes she receives whatever money (income) I earn for home kitty inspite of her having regular earning from her job and I don’t question her why she needs my sperm and money for like you are questioning on behalf of all?. For views on my daughter let her grow up and you be here she will herself give reply on what she wants in her then times how can I reply on her behalf today and or put her into first 3 paras she has to reply that!.
However reading and replying queries / media reporting ask yourself does not a mother queriest here need money for her and her child’s maint. which was produced by sperm of her husband ?
Maybe now you can tell how this para 4 statement insults or defames my own wife who is a women or say in Indian context when most wives in LCI / media reporting who are mother and or not given opportunity to become mother (allegation of impotency is very common which you also know) says she does not want money and sperm of her husband?
I will tell you now a golden comment – Don’t act like Ms. Indira Jaisingh throwing upon me all virtual tables / chairs of LCI when “keep” word was used by one of the Lordship vis-à-vis above 4 opening paras of mine for the first time you are seeing published in LCI inspite of knowing from bottom of your heart these are what most of the women wants from generations and TODAY.
You have over-reacted without understanding what women wanted generations down to you and me.
Having made opening rebuttal on what does a women want I donto feel that my grandmother and mother would have felt insulted or defamed if I per se tell them that she loved making 6 and 2 babies respectively and two males in family paid for babies upkeep as “their shastric duties” and she did not felt need to go out to work to bring up the babies in family and thus enjoyed having maximum maternal time with babies in our family. You may see where your females stand for which all word is used not most which I used in making above 4 pointer comment.
However I see you and all mentioned women writers offended so you all may file defamation and seek Rs. 101 Cr. which will surpass “Times Now” Rs. 100 Cr defamation penalty Order of SC. Let SC declare that most women do not want babies and most women donot want monies of their husband and lastly most women donot need sperms of their husband and you pray for the Amendments in various Family law happening based on operating part of the defamation Order of lordships and if you win I will offer by other kidney for sale to pay for Rs. 101 Cr defamation penalty as the first one is reserved for my wife in case she changes her present state of mind anytime in future ;-)
@ Chandu there is difference in usage of word MOST which I used and ALL which @ Ruhi and you are using and misguindg readers.