Hi All,
I am living with my parents and i got married in Jan 2012 after few months my wife and my mother has some small issue like normal. I always played a middle man to settle this type of issue. After 9months we have a fight(verbaliy) and she tried to live my home but i thought if she live don't know what she will do, where she will go then i decide to drop her to her parent house and did the same. She took all her jwellery with her.
Me and my father told her parents about his behavior and they agreed and she stayed there for 3months, she never try to call my or my parents, even after my call. I use to call her always and i call her father as well to settle the matter but he shouted on me. She won't come back, i ask her to come to me and i will accept you but she want me to take her, then finally i did same.
I thought i was last time and now she will change but nothing has changed she is behaving in same manner after few months. She is very daramatic and very hot minded. If we have a small fight and i shouted on her then she do the same and try to sucide(just to scare us).
One day on a small issue she called women cell, i was in my office then my parents called me that police has came. after investigate the issue police also agree with us that my wife is lieing and they ask her to sign a paper of sattlement and leave.
Me and her parents had a long meeting after this incident and i told them that i dont want to leave her but they shouted on us and forced her to live here only. I thought it is a bad time and will pass away and accept her.
In aug 2014 we are blessed with a baby girl, me and my family were very happy. I thought now bad day has gone but i was wrong.
In june 2015 she was fighting with my mom and i ask her to stop and lets discuss what happend but she deny, i forced her to sit on sofa and when i go out from the room to drink water she took a knife and try to cut her hand, suddenly i saw her doing this and i stoped her. Now this is enough i ask her father to come and let final this matter. Her father came and blamming us that we torture her daughter and he will make us arrest and we are going to jail, well nothing comes out from them and they leave.
Then i ask my wife what you want, she reply "i can't live in this house" and she try to leave my house with my daughter. I ask her to final this matter first and then you can go anywhere, i ask to go to court and let divorce and she agree, but on that day we were late court time has lapse and my brother frnd is a lawyer and he told us that he has created the document for divorce and if you both are agree then we have to come day after tomorrow in front of Judge and we will get divorce. she agree and then she live from there i dont know where she is going. i ask her to drop wherever she want but she deny. i back to home with my brother. next day i was in office and father called me and told me that she has came and we accept her with no questions ask.
In recent incident on my dauthers birthday she start fighting with my younger brother and with mom, this day she abuse my mom and my mom does not reply to him i shouted on her but she never listen to me.
Every time we have a fight she try to leave my house, and i stop her forcefully and make her understand that where she will go and what about our daughter.
I don't know what to do??
Now i think she don't deserve me.