Hi All,
I would like to add few more things:
Apart from the email and SMS exchange, there were few other reasons. I am listing some of them:
1. In 2004 , I was staying in rented house in Mumbai. Due to a minor argument my in-laws had taken my wife and son to their native place. Wife demanded, I must have my own house in Mumbai. As a result, I purchased a flat in Mumbai. Then she came and stayed with me.
2. In 2007, I was in tremendous projects and work pressure. I also had called my younger brother and sister to stay with me for few months so that I could boost their career with the higher study. Probably my wife did not like my siblings staying with me. Due to a minor argument on phone (I was at work place) my wife left home with son and with the guidance of my in laws. I called many times, she ignored me. Also she had filed a FIR in police station. But police never approached me. So I am not sure if the FIR is true of just a false letter. But some how, I brought my wife and son back in 2008.
3. My parents were poor. Hence I have purchased agriculture and horticulture land at my native place. My wife was not in favor of this.
4. Due to loans etc, I was bit indifferent towards few comfort living needs such as AC in the new house etc.
5. My wife demanded my properties to be transfer to her name with the fear that, I might have affair outside etc.
From 2008 to 2013, our married life was wonderful. Every year I used to organize a tourism trip for my family and in-laws all together. We used to spends 1 lac every year and all were happy.
I used to buy gifts and sweets etc regularly for my in-laws as they were also helping me in many ways.
But when the crisis came in my life, all people left me alone. Now I am struggling alone and fighting to get my family back.
My contributions
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1. I purchased a beautiful flat in Mumbai, keeping in view that my son will grown up and can study or work in Mumbai.
2. On my wife's request, I purchased another 2 floor house and plot in my Native city. The house is in its finishing state.
3. As food security, I have purchased agriculture and horticulture land.
4. I am now working as Technology Project Manager with an very reputed International bank and continuously have my promotions with work awards.
My Surprises in current life
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1. I am now alone. Helping all. Spending money in my younger brother's marriage.
2. Saving money for my wife and son for their future
3. Making house for them. It is very surprise that my wife and son provided all wrong and negative statements in front of Judge.
4. My wife said to the Judge that, in last 12 years my husband only purchased one Dress for me. I was shocked.
5. My son said to the Judge that, I am beating him with belt and is not giving food. It was another Shocking for me. My son was my most dearest. I never even slapped him
I am trying to analyze, where I made mistakes. Is it my in-laws are trying to force me to transfer properties into my wife's name?
Many time I thought to marry another girl by giving divorce. But I changed my thought, as it will impact all 3 (me , my wife and son).
I am now suffering every moment. Please guide me what I need to do.
I know few people who can initiate talk with my in laws.
Please provide your suggestions.
Thanks and regards,
Ram
