Wife filed 498a etc and DVC (for maintenance etc) on me and entire family, lost my mother, I am jobless at the moment not seen my children for 6 months 3 yrs and 9 years old. 12 yrs of marriage.
Getting a job and doing seems very difficult for me considering my mental level.
Side-effect of a job would be tht she would start getting money. In software sector that I am in mostly salaries go to the bank and nothing is given in hand.
To get back to some sense of normalcy to start looking for a job and doing it it would be good to first start visiting my children weekly at least once.
My wife is a teacher getting about 10k per month.
To get visitation rights my lawyer says u have to get a job. I can understand that to get custody I would need a job, but even for visitation rights do I need a job ??????
