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vic (working professional)     08 July 2013

Girl threatning for marriage,otherwise she will charge rape

One of my friends,a guy, met a girl through matrimonial website and they liked each other and wanted to marry. They got intimate as well. But, the girl's parent refused to marry. Still they continued. Girl's parents even abused and threatened guy not to meet, still they met. Guy kept refusing out of fear to girl not to meet as her parents were not willing, still girl came to his house and finally they both were caught by girls parents.Girls parents decided to marry and things went smooth till they started putting their conditions to boy that they want jwellery  and all. To sort out these and move ahead, the guy's family wanted to visit girls place but unfortunately couldn't make up, on which girl's parents scolded guy's family and abused a lot. Ultimately, guy's family members somehow managed to reach girl's place and try to resolve. Things again started to went smooth but the girl's family in between including girl started threatning guy that they will charge rape, girl will commit suicide if the guy refuses to marry. Now, guy doensn't want to marry as in future, they can threaten him for any other dowry cases or DV Act. Is it possible that girl charges rape though they had been close last time almost 4-5 months back? As soon as guy's parents got scoldings and all, he started to avoid taliking to girl, due to which she started threatning for rape/suicide etc.Is there any thing to fear for guy?



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Rama chary Rachakonda (Secunderabad/Highcourt practice watsapp no.9989324294 )     08 July 2013

She can file a police complaint. You guy will have to count the grills.


(Guest)

Did they(the concerned guy and girl) have physical relationship on account of the reason they would get marry soon.

 

This big question has to be answered to express a proper opinion.

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vic (working professional)     08 July 2013

They wanted to get married earlier but due to her parent's threat,couldn't do so.now as threatening increased from girl also,hence guy wants to avoid so as not to get involved in dv cases later.there are call records of threatening.Also,it was unclear from her parent's side,whether they will allow marriage or not earlier.she herself has refused to marry in calls n chats,whose records are there.

N.K.Assumi (Advocate)     08 July 2013

Does it mean that in every relationship which did not work out after physical union amounts to rape? Should adult female open her body for someone before marriage, and if the relationship does not riped into marriage, a case of rape is made out against the man? The query also contain virus from the parents side and not from the man side apart from their union as adult. I am of the view that it is not rape.

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vic (working professional)     08 July 2013

Originally posted by : vic
Inspite of knowing that the marriage may not take place, girl used to visit guy's place consoling that one day, her parent's will be convinced. Now, they are convinced and as their wishes are not fulfilled, the threatning for (murder/rape/will not leave guy's sister) continues. The main threatning point is rape in pretext of marriage.Is their something that guy can do to save himself?

(Guest)

To plead innocense it must be proved that the man didn't promise to marry and make physical relationship with the girl.Consensual relationship without any such promise is the only way to save the guy otherwise he may fall in trouble.

 

Apart from above,no further comments needed.

vic (working professional)     08 July 2013

What about the supreme court ruling of 21st may that it should be proved that since the inception,guy was in no mood to marrry.Also,if it it proved through chats and all that even when it was not clear thatmarriage may take place,they entered into relationship.and after her parents refused,still they continued.

JASWANT VIJAY AGNIHOTRI (AIR ARMY)     08 July 2013

Let she threa, dont afraid and just ignore but dont marry, the expert advice is vary as per situation. you straight way forbid to marry and also in court you can challange the role of her parents and money demand and also it is better to avoid marriage with these girls......you better know the situation. proofs will be supportive and marry soon if possible and hide yourself atleast for 6 months. then see....dont afraid from case......

N.K.Assumi (Advocate)     09 July 2013

Nothing, except exposing the femenist terrorist laws.


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