Want to divorce my wife

take her to a marriage consuellor there may be some solution because you have a 1.5 years kid and you should take the kid

may be some hectic situations arise out of egoistic but some one has to calm down so that the problem does not go prolong but in your case even you cannot meet your parents is very disgusting and about you in laws are also same as your wife

first make all meet in one place and decide what to do if the situation is same then decide for the broad step divorce with there consent and approach court 

Thank you so much sir for your swift reply. i will do as you said, but i am little worried that if it ends in filing for a divorce and it will be mutual as i already said she is very egoistic and if i go for divorce she will also say yes, then what will happen for our child custody, maintenance etc? as my in laws are very powerful and they will take my child's custody , is it possible in this case that once in a year say for 2-3 months my kid stay with me?

Originally posted by : cpsoni
	Thank you so much sir for your swift reply. i will do as you said, but i am little worried that if it ends in filing for a divorce and it will be mutual as i already said she is very egoistic and if i go for divorce she will also say yes,   Q: then what will happen for our child custody, maintenance etc?  A:  as my in laws are very powerful and they will take my child's custody Q:  is it possible in this case that once in a year say for 2-3 months my kid stay with me? A:  Depends on what conditions you put and whether or not your wife accepts it in the GAW case.

My advice would be, ask for visitation rights in GAW case, which you will get.  letting go off the kid would be a added advantage to you if you want to remarry.,

Thanks a ton Sir.

yes you are right but there are two things which i wanted to say.

1. i love my son very much and could not afford to live without him but i know i will not get his custody, so i am just making up my mind.

2. after facing lots of troubles in my 4 year old marriage, and viewing similar threads here, frankly i am now scared of marriage.

Originally posted by : cpsoni
	Thanks a ton Sir. yes you are right but there are two things which i wanted to say.   1. i love my son very much and could not afford to live without him but i know i will not get his custody, so i am just making up my mind. 2. after facing lots of troubles in my 4 year old marriage, and viewing similar threads here, frankly i am now scared of marriage.

Look, marriage does not come with a lifetime gaurantee.

Sometimes things dont work, and they stay like that even after trying, so dont feel guilty, living single life is not that easy thing.

Love for your son, wil only become baggage for your life, I mean whatever is remaining of it, so make up your mind, move on in ilfe.  Leave the son at egoistic 

wife and get visitation rights.

Today you might say so that no belief in marriage.  You have to believe in marriage inspite of the fact that your marriage failed, for the only reason that your elders/parents are still married to each other.

Good luck, keep in touch about your case.

what is no action complain? how it file?

yes. please let us know what is no action complaint and what it does and procedure to file it.

also i am suspecting 498a if i go for divorce as my in laws are all egoistic and they have already given some sort of signs about it. so please suggest me how to prepare for it and is there any way i can prevent my parents from it. please not that they don't live with us, and after my marriage they could manage hardly to visit my place only twice(in 4 year of marriage) because of my wife's behaviour.